MY NAME CHARLES MONGOE
THIS IS A PROJECT THAT I RUN: YOUNG PEOPLE THAT OVERCOME THE WORLD
At this moment I'm helping on the church as a teacher in kids (Sunday school services)
I HAVE BEING DOING A REASERCH
Parents they don't give their time in the children
In a day kids spend seven hours at school and three hours to play at home and ten hours that covers sleep and watching television. Once at weekend spend five hours to learn God's world.
- They have much time to learn mult lifestyle by themselves
- They have less time to learn from the parents
- They have a less time to learn God's will for them at church
This is a little challenge that faces us daily, and the increasing of technology, where kids face this by themselves, who can blame them.
If parents fail to teach and church too, the world outside will not fail but will teach them how to live.
The question what I you doing with a little time you spend with your kids
- Do you check they home works and ask how school was?
- Do you ask what did they learn at church?
- Do share your will for them when they grow up, how did you want to see them become?
- Do you admitted that this is what you want them to become in life?
- Are you a good roll modle for them to follow?
- How your kids do feels about you around they friends at school?
- Church elders what do kids see, or think about you, are they get motivated to become like you in future?
- What love do you show to them?
- Are you becoming parents to them to relay on you?
- Do you make follow up on the lesson you give them?
- Do they understand you?
REMEMBER FAMILY PROBLEMS DO AFFECTS CHILDREN GROWTH AND UNDERSTANDING AT SCHOOL AND CHURCH
- How others treat them?
- How parents treat each others at home?
- How parents treat their brother and sisters on their eyes?
Teachers at school and at church need to be aware about that, to get on a mind of a kid.
OTHERS GROW WITHOUT BOTH PARENTS
There is a big question about this
If indeed there is a difference between a kids with both parts involved in the life, what can we do to get in between and teach a one way life both need to do right.?
- What happen to my mother?
- What happen to my father?
- That question will not die, but how do they live with It.?
Divorce is a problem to children that face this problem. Some of this parents they don't talk about it, remember children normal learn via they eyes, they say seeing is believing that is true even old people do. If you want them to understand them be honest to them, if you are not wrong admitted that yes I'm wrong on this and that. Normal riches or material family have that does not bring happiness to both parents and children, when happiness comes from love, peace and care. Respect and peace of mind in a child come from love. And love is your presence on him, not what you give him
Church they fail on this too, some school teachers fail at this too, be there for your learners or your kids
Talk about them, show proud of your kids let them come first, and then they will learn on you to put you first.