Honestly I don't see how they don't get it. Thats because they lie so much they cant see the trust any more. But I guess there also to caught up with themselves. Its makes me mad at first but then you kinda realize it doesn't matter at all. All though people so called your friends when they steal from you when they take from you when they don't care about when they leave you . They will all will come running back to you when they need some thing. But yet when you need them all they do is talk about themselves. But you got to stay strong and don't let yourself fall into there trap again. What made me think this all I bet your thinking? Almost all my relationships involve me doing all the work. IM not doing that any more. I was a friend and know its my turn to have you as a friend. If you can do that why should I be friends with you. Don t answer that because I know what you will say I don't need to help you I want help myself. All though time I sit alone wanting to talk to some one. No one comes to help me so why should I help you. Lies just make me so mad because thats all you ever do. Why cant you just cut all the crap that your pulling and look up at me, You my so called "friends" will did you ever notice I was lonely? Nope wanted some one to talk to? Nope , did you ever help me with me Nope. All you did was make it some thing about you. That why I think a relationship starting so young is kinda full of crap . I love you , I love you, you don't love them so don't even act like you do. It just makes me so mad. But if your lonely you know what. Find any one to talk to go on you tube. watch videos. Will the real thing I'm trying to get to is that. You need to take care of the ones you love. Because being alone can be a good thing and a bad thing. Thats all I have to say. Ps stop making no effort why should they put all there love into you for nothing in return.