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10 Traits of the Perfect Guy

Essay By: PeaceLoveLingleton
Editorial and opinion

The top 10 traits that make a man perfect.

Submitted:Nov 29, 2011    Reads: 465    Comments: 3    Likes: 4   

  1. Chivalry. No matter what is said, chivalry is never dead. No girl will ever get tired of having doors opened and chairs pulled out for her. Come on guys, step it up!
  2. Confidence (but not arrogance). There is nothing sexier than a man who is confident in himself. But, when it gets to a point of arrogance, it's a major turn off.
  3. Sense of Humor. A guy should be able to make his girlfriend laugh. Remember, it's the little things in life you treasure, so make everything fun.
  4. ROMANCE! Ok, so most guys are a little romantic, and being too romantic can be a major turn off, too. But come on, a little romance NEVER hurts.
  5. Admiration. He thinks that his girlfriend is the most amazing girl in the whole world and that he could never find any better.
  6. Imperfection. That's right, I said imperfection. Perfection is not possible, but it is the small quirks that make a person the way they are:)
  7. A Desire to Impress. Guys should never stop trying to impress their girlfriends (and the same goes for girlfriends). Make each day seem like the first: like it is impossible to let each other see just how amazing each really is.
  8. Differences. Liking the same things is ok, but it gets boring. There should be some conflict. Differences that teaches each other about the different interests. Not so much difference that there is fighting, however.
  9. Don't Rely on Money. Sure, when two people are dating, it is great for a guy to be able to shower his girlfried with gifts and constantly taking her to nice places. But that's not really love. Jake Owen's song "Don't Think I Can't Love You" comes to mind (this is definitely the sexiest song ever written). When the two can just sit at home and watch a $2 rented movie for a date, they know its love.
  10. Have a Crush. Never stop having a crush on each other. Crushing on a person means constantly thinking about them or just simply txting them and having sweet litte messages letting them know they are on your mind. Always try to impress.

Looks are not everything. It's the guy behind the looks that counts. I know several guys who could have jobs as male models, but have the worst attitudes of them all. It's the ones who aren't self-centered that are the ones to keep. They are the ones that will really care.


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