first i would like to say i'm not a religious or spiritual person, if you are a true believer and don't want my opinion on this i suggest reading no further!!!
Reincarnation? Whatever! After-lifes? Whatever! It is not something i believe in and it is something nobody will ever make me believe in. i believe there are only two lifes, the life that you are in right now and the life when you are dead and in heaven or whatever, i don't believe people can be reborn, and exist in another life. sorry if this goes against your beliefs but i have warned you not to read further if you didn't like the topic.