Questions about it....

So sorry this isn't real erotica but i know that this is the subject that is read the most (naughty people you :P) so ive been reading and writing erotica for a long time now and i think its because im female and a young, die-heart romantic, that i look for, read, and wright more about the true connection and the real love it takes to proceed with a relationship to sex and i just wanted to know if there really are guys out there that think that way as well (straight guys no offence cause i love gays as well)  or is it really just sex to them until they reach a certain age??????