Did you, once or more times in your life, feel some emotion to a certain person. He has charming wife, make many money and have wonderful kids. And you feel something to this person. You can’t understand what this feeling is and I will tell you. It’s envy.
What is envy?
This is very bad, horrible emotion that causes unhappiness to yourself and others. This emotion description is like this “it appears when person lacks another person’s things and achievements and wants that others person lacked it” Person who is negated by his envy, he is often to misfortune others.
There are two types of envy. Malicious envy and benign envy. Benign envy is good unlike malicious envy (it’s positive motivation power). But this time we will talk about Malicious envy.
Malicious envy reasons
“One may envy the magnitude of concern shown by other couples towards each other”
“If one has not been involved in any relationships, he or she may be envious of the enjoyment others are receiving from their relationships”
“The envy may be material-based, when friends have all the latest gadgets”
“It could also be based on qualities like looks, success in school, and popularity”
“A 'favored' sibling might be the cause of envy”
“One from a broken family may envy others who have complete families”
How to overcome envy
“Find how he gain what he has now”
You are jealous of his new car, hot wife and wonderful children. What to do? Gain what he has and your envy will disappear.
You can learn something from him. What skills he has, how he talk, what he is thinking. You need to learn his success. When you will learn what he was doing to make him what he is today,
You can get those things that you want with his method.
Don’t envy, it will be very painful not only for your but to him and for your friends. You need to think in this way: he worked very hard for ten years to gain what he wanted. It is not easily for everyone. For this reason, you need him respect and see him like hero. This is not easy, but you need to try. I swear, your envy will be gone with time.