It's about my ex wife (pictured) who was in a relationship after we divorced. He boyfriend put her in the hospital for 3 days and nearly blinded her. We were talking and I asked her what she was going to do. She told me that she was thinking of marrying him. I was speechless. Looking back it occured to me that she was the type who would corner a rat or a snake (so to speak) and keep poking it til it fought back. I feel that some violent relationships are by agreement. Was it a match made in heaven or the match that lit the fuse? = Matches and fuses finding each other