WHAT WOMEN WANT: CERTAINLY NOT RAPE
There are so many theories on what women want. Unfortunately the numero uno way men look at women is as if they were meant for fulfilling their lusts. And men who are like that lack self-control and are generally devoid of morals.
No stupid man, the woman does not like to be stared at or ogled at and she does not like stalkers. Perhaps if the Western women started wearing decent clothes, the rate of rape of women in Western nations would drop. When women wear sexy and kinky clothes, the numero uno perception for men is that she wants it bad and hence that is why there are so many rapists particularly in USA.
It is time that the woman in USA undergoes self-defense classes because the men in the country are generally psychotic with histories of mental illness and sickness. They view the woman to be an easy target for whatever they want. Its high time the women straighten up their acts as well. 'No being handsome does not mean that he is the one for you.' That is an illogical way of rationalizing things. You don't know a thing about a stranger and his background. Who is he and what sort of past has he? Is he flirtatious? Why does he like you? What does he do for a living? How stable is he? How many girlfriends has he had in the past?
Watch the kind of language he uses and whether he problems controlling his anger or not. Now you don't want to be mentally or physically abused. You don't want him sleeping with you, using you for his pleasure and moving on.
If you have had the misfortune of being in a bad relationship, then make sure not to repeat those mistakes you made the first time. Broken relationships bring about a lot of anxiety, depression and hurt with them. Therefore rather than become a nervous wreck jumping into more, be very careful.
There have been many cases where men having the Hiv Virus or other sexual diseases have transferred their illness to their partners. Now if you are thinking of having sex, make sure that he is clear of all STD's and the HIV virus. Your life and health are more precious than suffering from potentially life threatening maladies.
Without any disrespect to anyone, jumping from one partner to another to fulfill your sexual pleasures is not human. It is the animal within men and women that comes out and leads them to partaking in sex.
So many men and women have been guilty of abandoning their spouse after the birth of a child. Now that is being purely irresponsible. If you don't want to have a child, use a condom, a diaphragm or a birth control pill but don't play around with the lives of a third human that you bought into the world.
Sex is God, Sex is Wonderful, Sex is healthy, etc etc. What utter nonsense. These clichés being utilized and promoted in the United States of America have destroyed the morals of the nation. Should women start denying men, premarital or extra marital sex, the country would come to a standstill.
When you read that a certain females bum or back side has been insured for a million dollars, it really speaks volumes about the kind of morals that persist in the country.
Here is the sole superpower of the world that has been unable to reign in violence and abuse of women in society. They continue to be raped and abused at will. And the law is unable to control the sadists, the rapists and the stalkers within the society.
Consider the following facts:
Fact #1: 18.3 % of women in the United States have survived a completed or attempted rape. Of these, 12.3% were younger than age 12 when they were first raped, and 29.9% were between the ages of 11 and 17. (National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey 2010)
Fact #2: 22 million women in the United States have been raped in their lifetime. 63.84% of women who reported being raped, physically assaulted, and/or stalked since age 18 were victimized by a current or former husband, cohabiting partner, boyfriend, or date. (National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey 2010)
Fact #3: Less than half of domestic violence incidents are reported to police. African-American women are more likely than others to report their victimization to police Lawrence A. Greenfeld et al. (1998). (Violence by Intimates: Analysis of Data on Crimes by Current or Former Spouses, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends. Bureau of Justice Statistics Factbook. Washington DC: U.S. Department of Justice. NCJ #167237. Available from National Criminal Justice Reference Service.)
Fact #4: The FBI estimates that only 37% of all rapes are reported to the police. U.S. Justice Department statistics are even lower, with only 26% of all rapes or attempted rapes being reported to law enforcement officials.
Fact #5: Almost one-third of female homicide victims are killed by an intimate partner. (FBI, Uniform Crime Reports 2001)
Fact #6: The National College Women Sexual Victimization Study estimated that between 1 in 4 and 1 in 5 college women experience completed or attempted rape during their college years (Fisher 2000).
Fact #7: Every two minutes, somewhere in America, someone is sexually assaulted. (Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network (RAINN) calculation based on 2000 National Crime Victimization Survey. Bureau of Justice Statistics, U.S. Department of Justice)
Fact #8: One out of every five American women have been the victims of an attempted or completed rape in their lifetime. (The National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey 2010)
Fact #9: Factoring in unreported rapes, about 6% of rapists will ever spend a day in jail. 15 out of 16 will walk free. (Probability statistics based on US Department of Justice Statistics)
These are horrendous figures and statistics which clearly point out that the woman in the American Society is the target of violence. If rapists are let out free, they will strike again and again. There has to be a change in the laws of the country and a revisiting of the set of morals within the society. The image of the woman has to change from a person that can be violated whenever you feel like it someone possessing dignity within society. Unless the evil in the society is looked at as an evil and the society joins hands in working to eliminate it, there will be no respite for females within the United States.