A country is like a family, there's no country that
doesn't have a problem..
There's no family that doesn't have a problem.
Sometimes people in the other families wants to live in
because they feel that their family problems are shoddier
but not until they
got in to that other family and experience their own
The reason why a problem can't be solve isn't because
is at fault but because no one wants to admit of being at
so that creates the separations.
When two reasonable best friends or
have got a misunderstanding, they know that the only way
the issue is by admitting to being wrong to each other.
Which would create
positiveness between the two friends, that makes them to
Having problems is a part of life..
It's just like having winter come and having the summer
The reason why a family problem can't be solved is
meetings, disunity & selfishness.
No one wants to be wrong, everyone wants to be
in order to gain something for own-little-self.
Africa is a continent with families inside. Lets use
Nigeria for example
as one of the families with problems. The problem with
Nigeria isn't all
about the Government, The President and the 'evil
people.' The problem
with Nigeria is that there're too many people (Nigerians)
saying and quoting "The problem with this country
There's no problem ever been solve with blames.
It only creates more blames and making a few people
When your house, catches fire. If you go worrying about
the fire, then you wouldn't be able to save any of your
Back to this family called Nigeria.. You've the President
saying that it
is the duty of the family to make the family better. And
you have the
family saying that it is the duty of the president to
make the family better.
At the end of the day, when the family puts all the trust
in the president
when he disappoints.. Everyone lives in agony and
regrets. They will be
quoting "We shouldn't have trusted him, we shouldn't have
made him president."
This type of problems are similar to what is going on in
other families that
isn't the Nigerian problems. Some of the wiser families
would stay together in
unity, have meetings with each other, with no selfiness,
find out their faults and
solve their problems, without other familes knowing about
Those kinds of method, makes people in other families
with problems who
finds it very hard to solve their own problems, feel the
needs to leave their
families to other families that they believe is best for
them. And leaving their
own families in disasters.
Leaving blames on the governments and the
because in the past they've never been any good.
There're differences between living on the past and
living on the future.
When one is living on the past or from what people have
done to one...
then there's no future. When one is living on the future
because of the
fact that it is spotless, then the past means
Nigeria is a great family with great problems but will
only solve it's
problems. If only the members of the family will unite
and deal with
the problem in a positive manner.
To solve a problem in a positive way: you've to face the
not an individual, but the act of an individual because
born a problem.