Parents and children are
genetically geared to love each other, and it's a beautiful thing
But somtimes things go wrong parents don't understand and children don't respect. IN many homes, battles between parents and children develop in a regular sequence.
When things go wrong? The child say or does somthing parents dislike , parents react with something insulting. He replies with something worse and the parents come back with threats or punishment.
The main reason for problems between chlidren and parents is criticism.
Criticism is unnecessary. When children take a wrong turn on a road and lose their way, the last thing they need is criticism, When things go wrong, it is not the right time to tell a child anything about his personality or character. Criticism of personality and character gives children negative feelings about themselves.Children are trying to figure out how to act (behave) what is acceptable and what is not. They look at parents as models of that behavior. This is why I blame parents more often for young children's aversive behavior.
Parents must teach children to discern what is right and wrong,and what they should and should not do.Parents must understand their children personalities and be cognizant on how children's attitudes and outlook change according to their age and environment. Lack of communication between parents and children leads to problems related to everything from school to dating.
How to get along with your children?
Be the best friend:The only people children can always lean on since they were born are parents.
Be supportive: build a new friendship and become a better person. You should be supportive and encourage them more.
Understand their weakness:Each one of us has the weakness. If you see your children weakness on something, you need to help them to improve it.
The more you get along with children in the right way, the more you become a better parent and a person. As a parent, you should know how to get along with your children to build a strong foundation of family