I recently have been going through a really hard time and have recently lost my best friend. And unforutnatly all my other friends are moving soon ( I'm not even kidding you!). During this hard time my Aunt Kelly and my grandma have given me their adivce and council and i was just wondering what booksie people have to say on losing best friends.
Please Comment below with your advice, experinece, or anything you have to say about losing friends.
This is what my Aunt Kelly said:
Alright... I want you to take a deep breath. Now, i want you to take an even deeper breath and let it out slowly. RELAX. Everything is going to be alright. Friends fight. Girls PMS. It's been like this from the very beginning of time and it probably will never change.
As you know, i am the queen of crappy so-called-BF-relationships. I have had my fair share of liars, backstabbers, and hair-pulling ninnies. You wanna know what i learned from all my years of experience? I learned to love myself. I know that sounds cheesy, but it's a good lesson to learn. kidarox123 (sorry i had to take my name out), you are an amazing person. You can never be replaced. If people don't love you for who you are, then that's their problem. Not yours. Never hang out with someone who doesn't believe you to be the extraordinary person that you truly are. Nothing's worth casting your pearls before swine.
_________ was a good friend of yours. Give her a chance to PMS becasue heaven knows all girls do it. Let her know how her actions are affecting you. If she doesn't stop hurting your feelings, find someone new to hang out with. Don't let her treat you like a door mat. You deserve so much better. Hopefully once you let her know how you feel, the two of you can work things out. If things don't work out. I promise that you will survive. Your stronger than you think my dear. Everyone looses friends sometimes, not just you. Everything is going to be okay, i promise. YOU WILL FIND ANOTHER BEST FRIEND. There are plenty of amazing people that you still have yet to meet.
I know it's hard to loose people who you thought you really knew, but you are going to be just fine. Things will start to look up again soon.Please tell me what you think!! I know many people that would find encouraging words very inspiring!