Why do we keep fighting?

WHY DO WE KEEP FIGHTING

I'm sure that at some point of our relationship,

that we were madly in love,

but now, it seems like a blur.

We are always fighting,

and our relationship seems like a burden.

We see each other less and less.

A tactic to avoid fighting,

But it never works.

It feels like a war.

Both sides fighting,

but no progress,

Until one side finally wins,

Or both sides compromise,

but what are we compromising?

Or happiness...

It feels like a tug of war.

Both sides pull,

first it seems like a challenge,

then it becomes a chore.

We've been pulling so long,

and so hard, that it's taking it's toil,

and sometimes, I wonder if I should let go,

Because I'm not happy anymore.

I constantly sit there,

in the bedroom,

Whilst your in the sofa.

Why do we keep fighting?