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The Caregiver

Poem By: Olwen
Poetry


I found my inspiration for this poem in the daily stuggles I see as a nurse witnessing lifes stuggle in illness and Alzheimers disease View table of contents...

 

Submitted: Jul 4, 2008    Reads: 42    Comments: 4    Likes: 4   


The Caregiver

As she picks up the broken pieces of the cup, she cuts her finger

it slowly bleeds,

She does not notice going through the motions of her very

long day

Across the table he sits, staring at the cup with intense scrutiny,

he pushes it away

Her arms are weakening, his spirit fading, she pulls him up

and moves him to his chair

He smiles and closes his eyes, he sleeps for now.

She sits, she breathes in, she breathes out, a few moments to rest

He does not know who she is anymore, but she remembers

Somewhere within the tangles of his mind he understands

that she is the one, the one who never leaves


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Comments:

This is just lovely. And what a tribute to caregivers everywhere. Whether they are husbands and wives or sons and daughters, or angels in white. I cared for my mother until she died and am now caring for my dad. Neither suffered from alzheimers although their illnesses often would leave them confused and just this side of reality. Fortunately, so far, those times are few and temporary.

It is the last line that I will carry with me in those rare moments when I wonder if he knows.

Thank you for a beautiful poem. Sheryl

Posted: Jul 4, 2008

Author Comment:

Thank you for your kind comments
I read your poem about your mother and it moved me to tears, I was with my nan when she took her last breath, I can't imagine being with my mother, but where else would you or I be.
Olwen

This reminds me of my momther's grandmother. She lived until she was 99, and finally, when it became impossible for my mother to care for her alone, she was moved to a nursing home, and the only person she could ever recognize was my mother.
Very sweet and very inspirational.

Posted: Jul 4, 2008

Author Comment:

Thank You Aislin
You are so right, it is a knowing that they are the one

its really very touchy

Posted: Jul 9, 2008

Author Comment:

Thank you so much Olwen

Wonderfully done. It is a subject close to my heart. My mother has Alzheimers. My father has been her caregiver. She has now been in a nursing home for a year and half. It is a tough disease, my aunt, uncle and my grandmother, all suffered from it as well. I wrote a couple stories about it, too. One is called One Face of Alzheimers and the other is Dancing the Jitterbug. Check them out sometime, if you have the time. Thanks for sharing, Ted

Posted: Jul 14, 2008

Author Comment:

Ted, I would love to read them, I have a few stories myself but have been shy about posting them.. I will check your stories out. Also my heart goes out to you about you mother, I have not posted all my poetry about Alzheimers.. it is very pesonal and inspired by each client I have encountered their wonderful spirit that never leaves.. Olwen



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