It’s quite humiliating that ladies are so called fools by guys. This I think is as a result of not knowing what is good and what is not good for us in a relationship involving the other sex. It is a known fact that if you do not clearly define your stand in a relationship as a lady, you tend to lose out at the end of the day. Although, the old cliché goes: “what you don’t know won’t hurt you”, that may be true in the world of clichés, but in real life, nothing can be far from the truth. Because, what you don’t want you don’t watch. Isa 1:18a.
One thing that remains the same in the world is ‘SEX’. It is the number one thing in the mind of many young and old people. We may not want to admit it, but sex is an international pre-occupation. Unfortunately, most information about sex is incorrect. So, the truth is sex is never a simple matter. Sexual intercourse is very complex, complicated and dangerous at times. Sex is never free. It may be easy to get, but it is not easy to get away from (costly). Wait a minute, have you ever thought of this: why a membrane of blood is packaged in a female sexual opening called HYMEN. It has been discovered by scientists that it has no definite function in the feminine body. It can be likened to a decoration being made for the opening or commissioning of a new thing like a house or car. Hence, the manufacturer has placed it right there as a door or gate which is unlocked only when a woman is married and not just the one promising to do so. To buttress my point, marriage is a covenant, not a promise. Promise simply means an assurance that one will do something or that something will happen, while a covenant is a formal agreement between two or more people or legal formal agreement that is legally binding, it is contractual agreement with witnesses. Psa 89:34.
Basically, sex is a metaphysical affair and the manufacturer (which is God) has given out the manual alongside which must be followed strictly by any intending user Pro 23:23. The same manufacturer has made the cell tissues and organs of the body as it says in 1 Cor 6:13; that the body is not for fornication. There is a spiritual bonding that takes place in a lady’s heart when the first man enters her, when the hymen blood breaks(blood covenant) and what has actually taken place is the bathing of the man with the hymen blood, thereby initiating a covenant recognized both by the kingdom of light and darkness.
Anytime you have sexual intercourse with anybody you are not legally married to, many things occur, as we know that blood is also a sign of a covenant Exo12:13. But here reverse is the case, whenever you have sex with your partner or someone else; you are pairing God’s blessing or curse, family curse or blessing, etc. The blessings are severe but the curses are chronic, especially out of wedlock; but for the married ones, Eccl 4:9 - 12 settles it.
Because of the disobedience of 1 Cor7:2, many are unconsciously in an unknown curse which can require serious prayer and fasting, along with deliverance before it can be averted. For a moment, think of how much of yourself (blessing) would be lost each time a man enters into you without any properly signed marriage contract. Then imagine what happens when a man takes you to himself more than 10 times and goes over to another lady to do the same. What will remain of you? Eph 5:3. But fornication and all uncleanness or covetousness, let it not be named among you. To all Christian, I will urge us to flee fornication. 1 Cor7:18-19. Although Christ has redeemed us from the curse of the law, but at times the consequence might be malignant. Gal 3:13-14. Great T. L. Osborn says “when you sin, something dies inside you”. What dies in you is your spirit, because your body is the temple of the Lord.Don’t lose your virginity because of a plate of rice, I believe you are not Esau, don’t bury your destiny because a guy promise to buy you blackberry. If you are still a virgin (both sex) keep yourself and celebrate it, but if not no need to panic 1john1:9, Have this assurance: IF IT CANNOT BE REPAIRED, IT CAN BE REPLACED. Bishop David O Oyedepo.
I pray that God will grant you more understanding about sex implication. Amen.
“What you don’t want, you don’t watch” – Bishop David Oyedepo
“Don’t eat up your tomorrow today” – Bishop David Oyedepo
“What you cannot perceive, you cannot receive” – Pastor Matthew Ashimolowo
“Don’t let your concern concerned you” – Olayera Ayobami (Decorum)
“Don’t allow your problem overwhelm you but kindly pioneer your future” – Olayera Ayobami (Decorum)
“Don’t allow your problem succeed you, but succeed your problems” – Olayera Ayobami (Decorum)
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