It is when someone misconstrued the meaning of "Obsession" into a "Feeling of Love" that creates so much confusion, brings so much pain and unhappiness. Obsession is that thought or feeling by a persistent idea such as wanting to be with that someone so bad, even if he or she knows the other person is emotionally unavailable for them. Obsession is that feeling or thought of someone going off their ways to win the affection of someone they know is in love with someone else to the extent of breaking a relationship, home or marriage to win the object of their affection. Obsession is that feeling or thought that one is willing to settle for less, including unrequited love from the other person. Obsession is that constant compulsion of endless ways of thinking how to selfishly win the love or affection of someone even if it means being treated poorly or with no regards, even if it means continuously being lied to, being cheated on and being rejected.
Sadly enough in this world we live in, it's so easy to mistake the emotions of lust, attraction into a feeling of Love. It is so easy to be obsess about anything, including constant obsession with the notion of wanting to be with someone, being blinded by the fact the object of affection may NOT feel the same way, perhaps that person is even in love with someone else. Obsession is that willingness to break anything including one's self respect, dignity, integrity to win the object of their affection. Along with it is breaking someone's relationship, home or marriage for that matter.
It is when someone misconstrued the meaning of "Obsession" to a "Feeling of Love" that they find themselves in a situation where it creates so much confusions in turn brings pain and unhappiness. It creates broken homes, broken marriage; it creates love triangles and all that negative situations in life. When one obsess and selfishly tries to get in the way of someone they know clearly is NOT in love with them or someone they know is in a MUTUAL LOVE RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE ELSE he or she is clearly Obsess with that person… LOVE IS A SELFLESS ACT NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND.