BEFORE THE PAIN OF ONE BAD RELATIONSHIP
HAS EVEN ENDED...
SHE'S INTO ANOTHER MAN, THAT SHE JUST MET.
NOT TAKING THE TIME TO EXHALE, AND
NOT TAKING THE TIME TO HEAL
SHE'S BACK ON THE SAME ROAD, HEADED TOWARD REGRET.
BECAUSE OF A FEW DATES, THAT DID GO WELL
SHE IS SLEEPING WITH HIM, ALREADY
NO THOUGHTS OF TOMORROW, HER FOCUS, IS ONLY ON NOW.
NO THOUGHTS OF HER OLDER CHILDREN, WHO
ARE WATCHING THE THINGS SHE DOES
WATCH HER GIVE UP THE MILK, TO A MAN, WHO DONT WANT THE COW.
CONVINCING HERSELF, 'CAUSE SHE HAS TO, THAT
IN TIME, THINGS WILL WORK THEMSELVES OUT
IN SPITE OF THE OBVIOUS SIGNS, THAT THINGS AREN'T GREAT.
BY NOT TAKING THE TIME THAT WAS NEEDED
BEFORE LEAPING INTO THIS NEW THING
SHE IS MORE OF A LIKEABLE F--K, THAN A LIKEABLE MATE.
IF YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE FUN, BUT YOU ALSO HAVE CHILDREN
JUST KEEP IT IN PROPER PERSPECTIVE
BE MINDFUL IT'S MORE THAN JUST YOU, THAT YOU HAVE ON YOUR PLATE.
IT'S OKAY TO TAKE TIME, AFTER ENDING A ROMANCE
TO LAY BACK AND CHILL WITH THE KIDS
THE RIGHT ONE WILL SHOW IN YOUR LIFE, SO BE PATIENT AND WAIT.
The time between relationships is relative to the need for healing. For some of us, the between time, is longer than it is for others. But the first since sign we should look for, is the ability to think back on the hurt and the pain and feel nothing, but, what we learned from it. If anger still sufaces, or tears or anxiety, we are not ready, to move onto the next relationship. No matter how badly we want one. WE ARE NOT READY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! When we move too soon, it is usually out of desperation and loneliness. And then, we are soooo prone, to making more mistakes, that will cost us more pain, that will just start the cycle all over again. That's where many men and women find themselves...and never understand, why. It's a vicious loop, that keeps you within its parameters, until you have the common sense(wisdom)to break out. I was there once...maybe more than once, lol...but, like I grew, so will you, and anyone else, who listens to that inner voice(our spirit)from God that says,"Enough!!! it's time to move on and get past this. Learn from the mistakes, so as not to repeat them. I have work for you to do. This is causing you to lose your focus. Let ME be your focus. And then I can lead you to the love of your life...as you do My will. But for now...learn to love Me completely...and then I can begin, to complete you."
Your day is coming. Trust that God has an awesome plan for your life. He does. But in His time...not yours. And He doesn't need our help. Just our submission!
I hope this has been of some help.