Why do we need the one? Why are we constantly searching for the one? Why does our world revolve around the one?
Boy meets girl, the boy likes the girl, but the girl falls in love with the boy. Usually at the end of the film the boy finally realizes that he actually loves her and magically makes it to the airport before she board’s the plane.
But in reality, our lives don’t end with a happy ending most of the time and usually the guy doesn’t come running after you, you’d usually be running back and your heart doesn’t ache for an hour, it aches forever.
Now generally speaking, this doesn’t just focus on a women’s view, this can also be perceived vice - versa. Most people would agree that in today’s generation, it’s rare to find a couple that’s stayed together through it all where one hasn’t given up on another, and that no love can conquer the love they have for each other. They either end up cheating, lying, fight for the most stupidest reasons and then finally realize that their not meant to be and there’s something else better than you.
But these days cheating and lying has become a feeling they want to keep because they don’t want to lose their “lovers” left feeling lonely and used. We have become so insecure with ourselves where we feel like no one else will be better when there’s billions of other people who could treat you so much better. It is our choice and we choose to stay, we choose to be hurt over and over again just because we don’t want to be alone and let go of something that you became so comfortable with. Why go through that whole process again with someone else when you can just stay in the same relationship and work it out. Or is it that we are afraid? Afraid to open up our hearts to someone else and know that they can do it to you again. You begin to lose faith and trust in relations and so called love….So we shut ourselves out and become cold waiting for the better but waiting for better made us bitter.
Now, before this scares you away from love, relationships insight is more than disagreement and battles but it’s a feeling we crave and by rejecting loves call creates a barrier of the true meaning of life. Without money, fortune and fame there’s always love, so sometimes don’t run away from it, because you may be walking away from a wonderful future. The only way your heart will mend is when you learn to love again so don’t let the past write your future.
Life can’t be defined in a few sentences, everyday there’s a different story to tell, a broken heart is put back together and another is broken, it’s just life and its mysterious ways.The only way you feel true happiness is when you’ve felt the sadness.
So tell me, why do we need the one? Why are we constantly searching for the one? Why does our world revolve around the one? Simply, because deep down under the pride and independence is love wanting to escape