Re-adjust Perspective, Gain Insight

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Submitted: July 23, 2016

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Submitted: July 23, 2016



While driving behind a large vehicle on a highway that puts you at unease and limits your vision, try changing lane when it is safe to do so and you will instantly find a whole new world in front of you which was previously hidden from sight.


Your Newborn Baby brings bundles of joy and happiness to the entire family and is the center of attention, and why not. The attachment, love and bonding get stronger as time passes and the little angel grows right before your eyes, until the once-adored darling of the family enters his or her teens and then the landscape completely changes. 

From an adorable child to an intolerable brat, that is the story of many families and depicts a cycle with almost identical patterns.

Now what actually happens and what should ideally happen.., and the roadblock!

While there are many factors, the cause and effect which lead to the aforementioned scenario but let us not discuss those to complicate the matter unnecessarily.

Let's find the 'Cure' in one straight giant leap.

To All Parents:

Was your son or daughter a darling when he or she was a baby?

If yes, then just for a moment, please;

Close your eyes and visualize him or her to be the same lovable baby.....

Please do this with passion, not just an exercise but to recall those precise moments until it brings a sudden smile to your face, and then treat him or her the way you used to do then (after that abrupt and massive moment of realization).

Trust me, he or she is still the same child and there is no real change whatsoever. To your utter amazement you will find that the canvas will instantly change as soon as you re-adjust or re-align your perspective to reality which might have changed, not you or your baby.

After all you are the Big Boss, the legendary Director, the iconic Leader and a super Mentor! So act like one and take lead.

To All Young Dudes:

Guys; Those annoying parents are the same loving angels who took care of you when you were a baby. Just visualize them to be the same blessed angels and treat them the way you used to do when you were a tiny tot.

For sure, they are still the most lovable people in the whole world and they are your best friends. Don’t let your Imaginary spectacles show you illusions which in reality do not exist. 

The demons of delusion will certainly deprive you of immense blessings that you have on hand. Be smart. See the true picture now, something that you will eventually discover after years but then the benevolent angels may not be there.

Sooner it happens the better. After all you are a cool guy!


For all relations whether it is the Child and Parent relationship, Friends, Husband and Wife, Siblings, Lovers,  Colleagues or others, the cycle effectively remains unchanged, in most cases at least. The relationship is born, it grows, it matures and it declines.

The corporate world has learned that their products and services follow the same life cycle, and also that the decline phase can be deferred by adding some spice to their products, like relaunching their brands with added features etc.

The same principle applies to relationships with the exception that human beings are not products, they are one’s most valuable assets beyond any wordly treasures. Once they are gone there is no coming back, especially in the husband/ wife relationship.

Most of us learn their lesson after trials and errors, and we at times lose the most lovable people due to the unreal spectacles that time puts on our eyes. Those horrid illusions distort our vision and show us things which do not exist in reality.

Just for a moment, imagine the good times you had together and see how it feels to you. If the feeling is good then it clealy shows you the way forward. Whenever the grisly illusions return to haunt you, think of the good times that you enjoyed together and the illusions will instantly disappear.

And Please do this often!!

Be nice to others. Be good to yourself. That is basically one and same thing.



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