30 Ways to have an Amazing Birthday after 30

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30 Ways to have An Amazing Birthday After 30



If you're anything like me Birthdays are extremely important! No matter how old I get I still expect to feel special on my special day. Birthdays are better than any other holiday because it is All
About You , as it very well should be! Have no guilt about being over 30 and having finally have had experienced the oh so popular Dirty 30 Birthday Bash. There are still ways to have an Amazing
Birthday after 30. Here are 30 sure ways you will no doubt have an enjoyable , meaningful Birthday full of memorable memories.



1. Reflect , Reflect , Reflect (Meditate ) Start your day off by reflecting and or meditating over the past year of your journey . You can do this in bed , in mediation position , in the shower,
while you eat or while you're drinking your morning coffee. Reflections is something that is necessary to stop and actually acknowledge your existence and your life experience. What better time
than the very day you were born. You can think about all the things that make you ,YOU. The things that makes you smile , the lives you apart of, the things that make you feel beautiful , even the
things that made you sad and why . Don't feel bad if (and when) you start to get a little teary eyed . Deep Reflection/ Meditation usually causes this affect.It's perfectly normal and quite
therapeutic.



2. Pay Homage to Yourself Count your Blessings as some people like to call it. It's good to make a list of all the things you are thankful for and all the things that make you proud of yourself and
say "WOW , I can't believe I actually did that , I am a true survivor . You can do this during or after reflection. What makes this activity different from reflecting because this all about gives
yourself props and praises. :) That's right pat yourself on the back. Doing this as early in your day as possible can really kick-start your entire day with positive thoughts and affirmations .
This can also reduce the common Birthday anxiety and frustration , you now that feeling that makes you start to think you are not having that perfect day that we all look forward to even as
children.



3. Workout / Walk No , I'm not a work out fanatic nor do I go to the gym or workout as much as I think I should but I do enjoy the feeling a good workout does for you . This will have your blood
pumping and get you pumped up as well. Listen to some of your favorite tunes while you walk or jog around your neighborhood if you don't want to take it to the gym. You can also do numbers 1 - 3 on
this list at the same time . A good workout session makes you feel accomplished and being over 30 feeling accomplished is one of the best and sought after feelings in the world .



4. Cook yourself breakfast Even if your aren't the best cook , make yourself and egg , or a smoothie. Make a fruit salad doing something for YOURSELF early that morning . Most of us like to be
pampered on our Birthdays and expect someone to ring us breakfast in bed or go out and get served our breakfast but preparing your own unique breakfast for yourself on Your birthday is fun and
something to look forward to your special day , YOU treating YOU ;)



5. JAM out Rather you're on your way to work or riding around running errands , getting prepared fro your night out or your party , make sure to listen to all your favorite songs. We all know that
Music is the soundtrack to our lives , so go as far as back as you can remember while listening to playlist. If you don;t have one a good idea would be to make one the night before. Play songs that
brings back good memories!



6. Living Creatures I find that one of the way best ways to celebrate your life at any age is to surround yourself with a new form of life. YES I mean get out and go get you a pet. :) If not.. you
could always substitute for flowers or plant. Bringing in something new that is also living on your Birthday helps you to participate in the cycle of life and creation. I recommend buying you a
fruit plant or pretty Ivory or Daisy something you have to love and nurture , a resemblance of yourself.



7. Art Now we're getting into the fun stuff. Ever try painting a pretty picture literally? Your Birthday would be an excellent time to start . Rather you go t an art gallery to admire art or take
an art lesson or pay for a session it would be fun to express your artistic side. If painting , drawing or coloring isn't your thing than sing a song , record a track on your phone , if you like to
sing. Or even write a poem , but remember to be fun and creative but fast , keep it simple something that you can complete in one day.



8. Go Skate When is the last time you and your friends or family put on a pair of roller skates and hit up the roller-rink. Skating over 30 is a great to have fun and let loose for your Birthday!
How cool would it be to have an Adult Skating Party . Bring in cake , order pizza the whole nine-yards



9.Wine Tasting Something sexy and classy is to have tasting event or even go to one if you don't want to have your own. You could do this alone or get dressed up and invite few people . Good thing
about this you all will get a little tipsy and no telling what might pop off the rest of the night :}



10. The Dinner This is an old favorite for those of us over 30 , nothing is easier and more convenient than treating yourself or get treated to a nice birthday dinner and even better if you could
invite some friends , add some drinks and gifts this simple but satisfying activity is usually never a disappointment. 11. Massage Relax and get body rubbed on :) Yesssss this is like music a
person over 30's ears. You can go to a parlor and let the professionals take care of you or use a chair in the middle of the mall either way , this is a go to idea during the day after your
shopping or before you go out that night , even after your workout.



12. Spa Day If you get a massage why not get a facial , pedicure and or manicure while you're at it. Most of them have the massage chairs there as well so you can do both of these activities at the
same time.



13. Open Mic Try out a local poetry lounge or karaoke bar. You're sure to have a good time and be around a positive crowd ready to have fun.



14. Movie Night Movie night is classic when you a low-key night. Feel comfortable enough to take yourself if you don't have a companion . Best thing about movie night it could be done in your own
home and can possibly be Free of charge.



15. The Beach Ugh , whats not to love about a day at the beach , sun , sexiness, good vibes and open air. This could be done anytime of the year if you have access to a beach, just as long as the
weather agrees with you.



16. Good Old-fashion House Party Yes there is the cleaning and hosting that has a little foot work that needs to be put into this event but it is always something easy to do if you do it right and
not stress over trying to impress your guest. Relax and realize they come for you and your presence is good enough. Plus you can get as drunk as you want to because to because you're already at
home.



17. Photo-shoot That's right get three of your best outfits and snap it up. Pay for a local photographer , go to a studio or take the pictures yourself if you don't have your own personal camera
assistant . Frame the pictures and put them up in your house :) every time you see the it will remind you of your special day.



18. Bake It Off If you love sweets as much as I do and really don't feel like leaving the house r you have to work long hours that day , instead of dinner order take out or delivery and bake you a
cake , or a pie or even some cookies. Sweets always makes you feel special. If you're on a diet your Birthday is a good day to cheat :)



19. Design Redecorate your house or your room. Bring it to life in a reflection of where you are in your life at that moment. Change the color of your room or add some bright new curtains. Give
your living space a new feel to compliment your new age.



20. Make-Over If you have noticed that you have not been looking as glamours as you usually do , make sure to go to ad a little blush and eye-shadow to your day. If you don't want to go all out and
do a Full blown make over which would be so neat Dye your hair , buy a wig in a new style , wear something flattering that will stand out and make people notice your glow. The compliments alone
will have you feeling special all day.



21. BIG Kid Once we get over 30 , there is no mistaken the fact that we are fully grown. An adult if ever was one before :) Take this day to big a Kid and do whatever it is you want to do. Go to an
arcade or a game room. Places like Dave and Busters , play your favorite video games with your kids and Kick their butts in it :)



22. Kick Ass Speaking of kicking butt , Kick major ass on your Birthday. Take a marshal arts class. A self defense or even boxing. Sign up for one a week or two before hand if there is no walk in
locations near you, Practice self discipline and learn new ways to workout and defend yourself , either way it will leave you feeling accomplished and you would have gained some cool points by
being an official "Bad Ass" 23. Picnic A picnic is relaxing and if the weather is nice you can't go wrong with this idea. Don't forget the blanket , the basket and the wine , so you'll know it's
real :)



24. Whip Love Spend the day with your car Literally , spend time with your spaceship. Take your car to get detailed and take yourself on a drive , ride out and site see , even if it's just to the
other side of town. If your car is smelling good and looking good I'm sure you two can find something to get into.

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30 Ways to have an AMAZING Birthday after 30 

If you're anything like me Birthdays are extremely important! No matter how old I get I still expect to feel special on my special day. Birthdays are better than any other holiday because it is All
  About You , as it very well should be! Have no guilt about being over 30 and having finally have had experienced the oh so popular Dirty 30 Birthday Bash. There are still ways to have an Amazing
  Birthday after 30. Here are 30 sure ways you will no doubt have an enjoyable , meaningful Birthday full of memorable memories.


  1. Reflect , Reflect , Reflect (Meditate ) Start your day off by reflecting and or meditating over the past year of your journey . You can do this in bed , in mediation position , in the shower,
  while you eat or while you're drinking your morning coffee. Reflections is something that is necessary to stop and actually acknowledge your existence and your life experience. What better time
  than the very day you were born. You can think about all the things that make you ,YOU. The things that makes you smile , the lives you apart of, the things that make you feel beautiful , even the
  things that made you sad and why . Don't feel bad if (and when) you start to get a little teary eyed . Deep Reflection/ Meditation usually causes this affect.It's perfectly normal and quite
  therapeutic.


  2. Pay Homage to Yourself Count your Blessings as some people like to call it. It's good to make a list of all the things you are thankful for and all the things that make you proud of yourself and
  say "WOW , I can't believe I actually did that , I am a true survivor . You can do this during or after reflection. What makes this activity different from reflecting because this all about gives
  yourself props and praises. :) That's right pat yourself on the back. Doing this as early in your day as possible can really kick-start your entire day with positive thoughts and affirmations .
  This can also reduce the common Birthday anxiety and frustration , you now that feeling that makes you start to think you are not having that perfect day that we all look forward to even as
  children.


  3. Workout / Walk No , I'm not a work out fanatic nor do I go to the gym or workout as much as I think I should but I do enjoy the feeling a good workout does for you . This will have your blood
  pumping and get you pumped up as well. Listen to some of your favorite tunes while you walk or jog around your neighborhood if you don't want to take it to the gym. You can also do numbers 1 - 3 on
  this list at the same time . A good workout session makes you feel accomplished and being over 30 feeling accomplished is one of the best and sought after feelings in the world .


  4. Cook yourself breakfast Even if your aren't the best cook , make yourself and egg , or a smoothie. Make a fruit salad doing something for YOURSELF early that morning . Most of us like to be
  pampered on our Birthdays and expect someone to ring us breakfast in bed or go out and get served our breakfast but preparing your own unique breakfast for yourself on Your birthday is fun and
  something to look forward to your special day , YOU treating YOU ;)


  5. JAM out Rather you're on your way to work or riding around running errands , getting prepared fro your night out or your party , make sure to listen to all your favorite songs. We all know that
  Music is the soundtrack to our lives , so go as far as back as you can remember while listening to playlist. If you don;t have one a good idea would be to make one the night before. Play songs that
  brings back good memories!

  6. Living Creatures I find that one of the way best ways to celebrate your life at any age is to surround yourself with a new form of life. YES I mean get out and go get you a pet. :) If not.. you
  could always substitute for flowers or plant. Bringing in something new that is also living on your Birthday helps you to participate in the cycle of life and creation. I recommend buying you a
  fruit plant or pretty Ivory or Daisy something you have to love and nurture , a resemblance of yourself.


  7. Art Now we're getting into the fun stuff. Ever try painting a pretty picture literally? Your Birthday would be an excellent time to start . Rather you go t an art gallery to admire art or take
  an art lesson or pay for a session it would be fun to express your artistic side. If painting , drawing or coloring isn't your thing than sing a song , record a track on your phone , if you like to
  sing. Or even write a poem , but remember to be fun and creative but fast , keep it simple something that you can complete in one day.


  8. Go Skate When is the last time you and your friends or family put on a pair of roller skates and hit up the roller-rink. Skating over 30 is a great to have fun and let loose for your Birthday!
  How cool would it be to have an Adult Skating Party . Bring in cake , order pizza the whole nine-yards


  9.Wine Tasting Something sexy and classy is to have tasting event or even go to one if you don't want to have your own. You could do this alone or get dressed up and invite few people . Good thing
  about this you all will get a little tipsy and no telling what might pop off the rest of the night :}


  10. The Dinner This is an old favorite for those of us over 30 , nothing is easier and more convenient than treating yourself or get treated to a nice birthday dinner and even better if you could
  invite some friends , add some drinks and gifts this simple but satisfying activity is usually never a disappointment.

11. Massage Relax and get body rubbed on :) Yesssss this is like music to a  person over 30's ears. You can go to a parlor and let the professionals take care of you or use a chair in the middle of the mall either way , this is a go to idea during the day after your
  shopping or before you go out that night , even after your workout.


  12. Spa Day If you get a massage why not get a facial , pedicure and or manicure while you're at it. Most of them have the massage chairs there as well so you can do both of these activities at the
  same time.


  13. Open Mic Try out a local poetry lounge or karaoke bar. You're sure to have a good time and be around a positive crowd ready to have fun.


  14. Movie Night Movie night is classic when you a low-key night. Feel comfortable enough to take yourself if you don't have a companion . Best thing about movie night it could be done in your own
  home and can possibly be Free of charge.


  15. The Beach Ugh , whats not to love about a day at the beach , sun , sexiness, good vibes and open air. This could be done anytime of the year if you have access to a beach, just as long as the
  weather agrees with you.


  16. Good Old-fashion House Party Yes there is the cleaning and hosting that has a little foot work that needs to be put into this event but it is always something easy to do if you do it right and
  not stress over trying to impress your guest. Relax and realize they come for you and your presence is good enough. Plus you can get as drunk as you want to because to because you're already at
  home.


  17. Photo-shoot That's right get three of your best outfits and snap it up. Pay for a local photographer , go to a studio or take the pictures yourself if you don't have your own personal camera
  assistant . Frame the pictures and put them up in your house :) every time you see the it will remind you of your special day.


  18. Bake It Off If you love sweets as much as I do and really don't feel like leaving the house r you have to work long hours that day , instead of dinner order take out or delivery and bake you a
  cake , or a pie or even some cookies. Sweets always makes you feel special. If you're on a diet your Birthday is a good day to cheat :)


  19. Design Redecorate your house or your room. Bring it to life in a reflection of where you are in your life at that moment. Change the color of your room or add some bright new curtains. Give
  your living space a new feel to compliment your new age.


  20. Make-Over If you have noticed that you have not been looking as glamours as you usually do , make sure to go to ad a little blush and eye-shadow to your day. If you don't want to go all out and
  do a Full blown make over which would be so neat Dye your hair , buy a wig in a new style , wear something flattering that will stand out and make people notice your glow. The compliments alone
  will have you feeling special all day.


  21. BIG Kid Once we get over 30 , there is no mistaken the fact that we are fully grown. An adult if ever was one before :) Take this day to big a Kid and do whatever it is you want to do. Go to an
  arcade or a game room. Places like Dave and Busters , play your favorite video games with your kids and Kick their butts in it :)


  22. Kick Ass Speaking of kicking butt , Kick major ass on your Birthday. Take a marshal arts class. A self defense or even boxing. Sign up for one a week or two before hand if there is no walk in
  locations near you, Practice self discipline and learn new ways to workout and defend yourself , either way it will leave you feeling accomplished and you would have gained some cool points by
  being an official "Bad Ass" 23. Picnic A picnic is relaxing and if the weather is nice you can't go wrong with this idea. Don't forget the blanket , the basket and the wine , so you'll know it's
  real :)


  23. Whip Love Spend the day with your car Literally , spend time with your spaceship. Take your car to get detailed and take yourself on a drive , ride out and site see , even if it's just to the
  other side of town. If your car is smelling good and looking good I'm sure you two can find something to get into.

24. Start A VLOG or just do one just for that day. Trust me you will be glad you did ten years from now, when you see how young and beautiful you were :) ( and you thoight you were getting old ) lol Post it under an alias. So you can really be free and honest on your Vlog. Show your routine and what you did from the start to finish of your day. Name it the age your turning like "Turning 34" , "Me at 39"  or "Adventure 33". It can be long or short but just remember to be honest and enjoyyourslef, don't worry about how you look to much or if your camera shy , ake this be personal but5 sometging that could help others.
 

25. Plan A Getaway 

Getaways are the ideal Birthday plans. But Planning is the key word. Althoigh it's called GetAway , there's alot of things you will have to take care of first , like where  you're going , gas , flight and hotel fare. If you haev the means by all means Do it. Pick somewhere that you know without a shadow of doubt you will have a great time by just the thought of you being there brings a smile to your face. That's the place to be. 

26  Get Naked 

That's right take it All OFF , or watch somebody eles get naked. Your Bday is not the time to be conservative. If you are this will be the best day to let it go for 24v hours and do something outrageous , go to a Nude Beach or just simply go to a strip club  ,take a pole dancing class , or even go to an work amatuer night strip club and you and your friends get tipsy and work that thing for some change. You might even get alot of tips :)

27. Surprise Your Damn Self

wake up that morning do step 1-4 and just go for it. Do something Different. If most of the things on this list you have done already and it won't feel special enough for your special day , Do something that only you know you owuld never do. This is personal so the possibilities are endles :) 

28.  Generosity 

Do something good for someone. Do a good deed on your Birthday , try to bring a smile to someone's face , rather it's a stranger , your spouse , your children if you have the means take soemone out to dinner or lunch. Yes , you treat soemone on your Birthday,  Feed the homeless , give to charity , clean out your closet and donate your old close it will open up doors for more things to come your way , Give ... a goft that keeps on giving .

29. JUST DO IT ... Acknowledge your Purpose

 I'm sure there is somethimng that you haev always wanted to do or you have been thinking about doing all year . Something is possible to be done , if you wanted to build a cabin on a lake today would not be a good day to pursue that but if there is this plan you have been thinking about , or a diet plan , to kick a bad habit. No , no one wants to pressure on themselves on their BDay but do whatever you feel will upgrade your leagacy for  you , don't hold it off any longer. Even if you just write down your meal plan for your new diet , right down your business plan for that business you have been dreaming about . It is important to take a BIG Step mentally towrds your Future on your Birthday , remembering this is a New Chapter to your Life story. 

Acknowledge that you haev contro of it and at thid point on your life , beyond 30 you are learning your purpose and actually starting to see it clearer and more realistically. 

30. SEX 

YES Have Sex , even if you don't have a partner. Pleasure yourself mentally or physcially of you have to. Sex is the Best on Your Birthday. If you are not having Sex at this time in your life than do something that gives you that Exotic feeling. . You do know you can pleasurein more than ones right? TRY IT and Begin or End your Special Day on that Note. 

I hope this list was as helpful as it was long ;) 

If you have any other great ideas for our 30 or older club please leave a comment below... 

Thanks for Reading 

yours truly 

Patches "SophiElle" Bell


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