success

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Status: In Progress  |  Genre: Non-Fiction  |  House: Booksie Classic

Submitted: September 27, 2018

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Success
What is the one thing that everyone on planet earth no matter who you are or where you come from wants? I assume based on experience of living life its to be successful. If that's the case we need to look at what success means. For a lot of people success can mean money, love, or faith. These are things that we chase; in order to achieve the ultimate goal of fulfillment or happiness.  How do I know that this isn't the ultimate goal of happiness you might ask? because if you do enough research, and observation you will begin to notice that people who have only one aspect of these things like just financial success they will never be satisfied, and always try to chase something else like material things after that. This is a sign this isn't what we were chasing in the first place. It takes this experience and observation of yourself to notice this. So if your true journey is to achieve happiness then we need to understand what it is. There's a difference between pleasure and happiness. Pleasure is brought upon by outside forces working on the five senses for example a new Lamborghini. This will give you a certain amount of pleasure that only lasts a certain amount of time before you're searching for your next rush. Happiness comes from within ourselves. We are the most happy when we are happy with ourselves. This is something that has true currency because it cannot be taken away from you. The best way to understand this is to look at people who are already successful in their journey to find true fulfilment. What do they all have in common well lets look. First of all you can tell from the way they make you feel that they are truly successful. When you're in their presence you can feel how happy they are. They all have in common the ability to act against thoughts that provoke them otherwise. What I mean by this is they are all human too. They have the same thoughts of laziness that everyone else has. The only difference is they are able to understand the value of self control, and act against what your uncomfortable body is making you feel. Until they have created a habit which then allows their body to adjust to the life they are creating for optimal performance. The more you make decisions based on what you know you have to do the more victories you will have over your body allowing you to take more control with each decision. The first step in doing this is observing your life from a non judgemental state, and understand if you aren't where you would like to be it doesn't have to stay like that. This is just a result of past thoughts and actions. You can change this at any point in your life by observing what you need to change, and practicing the skill of self control. After you observe what you need to do make yourself realize that by your actions you got yourself to this point so what do my actions need to be in order to get myself to where I want to be. A good way to do this is every morning when you wake before you do anything else even before you get up and go to the bathroom is to ask yourself "what is the best version of myself that I can be today." If you ask yourself this question every morning you will start your day with the mindset of you wanting to be your best self. This will propel your mind in such a way to give you the startup you need to get those early morning victories. Another thing to keep in mind while you do this is to observe the way you're feeling. In order to be successful these people like will smith, Denzel Washington, Jim Carrey along with many other successful people also understood that it was important to act in such a way that you were already the person you wanted to become. If you are already successful then you will automatically be happy rubbing off on others which makes your presence an asset. The secret is to feel this way before you actually achieve it in life. The reason for this is simple if you are the person that you want to become your actions will automatically follow that. In turn allowing yourself to take advantage of opportunities from every experience of life good or bad. 


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