The Important Qualities Of A Committed Relationship

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Status: Finished  |  Genre: Romance  |  House: Booksie Classic

What are the most important qualities of a committed relationship? What factors keep such a relationship positive and alive? Would it be shared interests, trust, humor, or nurturing each other's growth? To my fellow audience who is currently reading this, I have all the advise you may need to keeping a happy, healthy, and devoted relationship. Let me guess, you might be thinking I’m going to mention what most people in society might say, whether it’s ‘’trust, or communication’’, well, you’re wrong. Read along and I will answer all those questions and concerns you might have.

To start off, I believe that the most important quality of a committed relationship involves fighting. Yes, you heard me, fighting. You might think I’m crazy, but trust me, it works every time. Before I get into detail, Let me tell you a little bit about me. So, my name is Sarah, I’m 23 years old, and I have been in a committed relationship with my high school sweetheart for 7 years. We tied the knot 3 years ago, and now have two beautiful daughters. My husband and I are complete opposite people. We do not share common interest, and barely even see eye to eye. You might be wondering how we managed to make it work for this long, and my secret is fighting. By fighting, I’m referring to arguing. Not physically fighting. Have you ever heard the saying ‘’Opposites Attract’’? I believe that to be 100% true. If the couple is too similar, always doing the same things together, always laughing about the same things with one another, that will in time lead to boredom. I truly feel that couples who enjoy different things whether it’s music, TV genres, hobbies, and sometimes religion, allows the other partner to explore an entirely new lifestyle which makes things unique and interesting! Being perfect all the time is boring. The ability to make it through any type of conflict with your significant other, really puts your relationship to the test. And if you’re too equal, then what is there to disagree about? Relationships need arguments to prove one another’s love by determining if it’s worth fighting for.

  In conclusion, the purpose of this article was for me to open up a new way for you all to view things when it comes to your relationship. The most important quality of a committed relationship to me pertains to fighting, because without fighting, things will eventually lead to boredom. And being perfect is boring. I hope you all take my advise into consideration, and it works out for you as it did for me.


Submitted: July 20, 2020

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