Harassment in Relationships

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Status: Finished  |  Genre: Romance  |  House: Booksie Classic

A description of my encounters with these two closeted gay men and their abuse towards me-Bryden Winsby and Mario Vassallo, gay lovers

A few years ago, I was harassed viciously by two gay men. I made the mistake of dating a man by the name of Bryden Winsby, who I learned was sleeping with his male friend and travel companion, Mario Vassallo. 

Bryden Winsby is from Kelowna, BC. He also spends time in Cancun, Mexico, where he works as a Scuba diving instructor. He works for Club Med and similar resorts. A friend of his owns several resorts in Bangkok, Thailand and Mexico. He has several levels of Scuba diving certification. He also is a trucker and resides near a farm around the Yorkton, SK area. He works at the local hockey arena as a hockey instructor and coach. 

When I met Bryden Winsby, he presented himself as a cab driver and salesman. He went on about his success in creating a Herbalife line in the Kelowna area with the help of his former 'girlfriend' of three years. He lied and claimed he lived with her and was ready to settle down. 

On another occasion, he told me that he was 'afraid of commitment' and 'having an identity crisis' when we attended a science conference and went out to a pub. He was drunk at the time. I later learned from for of his girlfriends and a married woman he had an affair with that he never slept with them. He also never showed any affection and never bought gifts. He hardly took them out but always took them on group dates and to family outings. 

His ex-girlfriends made clear that he did not include them on diving events, trips, snowboarding ventures, or trucking jobs. He always invited large groups of attractive men. His Facebook page is now full of attractive male pictures and I saw him driving around recently from the grocery store with his new boyfriend. 

Winsby is afraid this will get out. He never took me back to his place when we dated and never had sex. This was over a period of several months. I was not surprised when I learned from his gay friends and coworkers that he was having sex with Mario Vassallo. 

I was forced to endure a two-year campaign of threats, stalking, verbal abuse, and harassment from this man. His lover, now deceased from coronavirus, participated in this behavior. There was also sexually vulgar and abusive behavior, though no assault. My house has been broken into twice and a woman came in once, balling her head out, about them. Another woman broke in and attempted to sexually assault another person in the house. She was a friend of Vasallo's. Items have been stolen and damaged around the property and eyewitness accounts as well as my own research and eyewitness accounts strongly suggest them or people affiliated with them. 

I want to make it clear that Bryden Winsby and all the members of his family as well as Mario Vassallo's family should be avoided. Winsby is six feet tall and has a father in government, in Westbank, and he owns a Berry magazine. They live on Coventry. His father has the same name. 

Vassallo and Winsby engaged in this harassment because they suspected I would figure out their homosexual affair and reveal it to their families. Winsby has more recently been living as a gay man and women should avoid him. He should be sued for his deception and lying. Vassallo boarded two planes with coronavirus and then died from the second bout. Heart problems and cocaine use were apparently involved in his death. 

Winsby is six feet tall, age 37 to 38 at this time, and living in Yorkton, SK. He has a long beard and greasy straight brown hair. He has brown eyes and is unattractive, scrappy. He is smelly and muscular with trucker clothes and tanned skin. He has hammer toes on his feet and likes to listen to heavy metal music. He enjoys snowboarding, hunting, music, hiking, guns, and other activities. At present, he is wanted for the RCMP on stolen weapon and illegal firing without a permit charges. 


Submitted: December 19, 2020

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