70 random questions

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I'm bored, so here, have 70 random facts about me. I suppose I can challenge you to answer these as well. Link to the original post where I copied these from is here:

1: Do you have a good relationship with your parents?

With my mom, yes. We’re more like two occasional roommates than a parent and a child and I like that. With my dad, not really. We talk, but I wouldn’t say I see him as a father to me.


2: Who did you last say “I love you” to?

My cat. If she doesn’t count, my friend at school today because she said she’s glad she gets at least a two-week break from me (we start full time distance learning on Monday). To which I answered I love her too. Quite sarcastically, but anyway.


3: Do you regret anything?

Lots of things. Mostly from my past, from years ago.


4: Are you insecure?

Not really. I used to be. Nowadays I’m quite confident. I don’t care about what people think of me. If I’m comfortable with myself, that’s all I care about.


5: What is your relationship status?

I’m single, but technically in an open relationship. I have a friend and we’re FWB. I have another friend like that back where I used to live. But yeah, open relationship.


6: How do you want to die?

No idea, but preferably fast or in my sleep.


7: What did you last eat?

A pepperoni pizza. Friday, you know.


8: Played any sports?

I’ve tried a lot of shit from basketball to skiing to archery. Team sports aren’t my thing, but once the pandemic is over, I wanna take up either archery or shooting again. I love doing solo stuff.


9: Do you bite your nails?

No, I used to as a kid but I’ve learnt out of that. I sometimes just pick my nails with other nails though, so that results in the same outcome as biting nails. But I’m probably way too germophobic to bite my nails nowadays. Gross.


10: When was your last physical fight?

A mock fight? Like, two weeks ago when me and mentioned FWB guy did CNC. I lost. Real fight? Probably in high school, so two-ish years ago.


11: Do you like someone?

Romantically, no. I can like people, but I don’t do commitment and actual relationships, so I don’t consider anyone like that at the moment.


12: Have you ever stayed up 48 hours?

Yeah, of course. I’ve always slept like shit ever since I was a kid. I got sleep meds when I was 15, but before that I would sleep only a few hours a night and I might easily go two days without sleep because I simply couldn’t sleep.


13: Do you hate anyone at the moment?

Yeah, my stepmom and my grandfather. But they’re out of my life, thank fuck.


14: Do you miss someone?

At the moment? My other cat. In general? I miss my friends who are now scattered around the country because we’re no longer in high school. My mom and brother at times as well.


15: Have any pets?

Yes, I have two cats. The other is sleeping on my bed right now, the other is back home with my mom.


16: How exactly are you feeling at the moment?

Tired, but also pretty good. I’ve had a shitty week and I’m glad it’s Friday.


17: Ever made out in the bathroom?

Tons of times. Mostly in bars.


18: Are you scared of spiders?

No. I don’t like them in my bedroom, but I’m not scared of them. They’re just kind of gross.


19: Would you go back in time if you were given the chance?

Yeah. If I could change something, I’d go back in time to tell my 9-year-old self to get the fuck out of my dad’s house. But I’d like to go back in time just to revisit fun parties from high school as well. I miss those.


20: Where was the last place you snogged someone?

A friend’s bedroom.


21: What are your plans for this weekend?

Sleeping so fucking much. Maybe trying to finish a book I’m reading.


22: Do you want to have kids? How many?

No. At least for now, might not know about the future me. But I’d rather have more cats.


23: Do you have piercings? How many?



24: What is/are/were your best subject(s)?

Right now? We have biology and I’m good at that. Math too. I’ve always been good at math, English and religion, for some odd reason. But probably English and math.


25: Do you miss anyone from your past?

Not right now, no.


26: What are you craving right now?

Another apple cider. I should’ve bought two.


27: Have you ever broken someone’s heart?

I don’t know. My ex-boyfriend was pretty sad we broke up but he was moving way too fast for me to be comfortable, and he lived a bit too far away for me to be able to keep that relationship up for long.


28: Have you ever been cheated on?

Not that I know of.


29: Have you made a boyfriend/girlfriend cry?

Yeah. Mentioned ex-boyfriend. I’ve also made an ex-girlfriend cry, but we had common friends and there was this whole drama and she ended up crying at some point.


30: What’s irritating you right now?

I’ve had a horrible headache for the last month and I’m at the point where pain meds don’t help anymore. That.


31: Does somebody love you?

My cats, probably. And yeah, my family and relatives. Some friends.


32: What is your favourite color?

Black and forest green.


33: Do you have trust issues?

Not really, but I suppose depends on the issue. I don’t trust people easily, so if I decide to trust someone they have to earn that first.


34: Who/what was your last dream about?

Damn, can’t remember. I had a dream I was lost in Helsinki a couple of night ago and I almost caught the wrong train when trying to get back home.


35: Who was the last person you cried in front of?

My mom, probably.


36: Do you give out second chances too easily?

No. I’ve been forced to do that as a kid and I can be mad at someone for a long time if I want to. I know it’s a bad trait, but I’m stubborn on that.


37: Is it easier to forgive or forget?

Depends on the person. I don’t forgive people easily if they’ve hurt me badly, but I don’t forget it either. I just stay mad.


38: Is this year the best year of your life?

Hard to say at this point of the year. But I’m happy with life right now and I’m looking forward to spring.


39: How old were you when you had your first kiss?

Proper kiss? 15.


40: Have you ever walked outside completely naked?

Of course I have. I’m Finnish. Duh.


51: Favourite food?

Right now it’s potato-parsnip soup, it’s such a good soulwarmer for winter. But it depends a lot on what I’ve eaten lately and what time of the year it is.


52: Do you believe everything happens for a reason?

No. Nothing does.


53: What is the last thing you did before you went to bed last night?

Shut off my light. No, seriously, probably set my alarm.


54: Is cheating ever okay?

I don’t know. Probably not, but I feel like I can’t judge people for what they do without knowing what’s going on in their life. But technically no, if you’re unhappy in you relationship you should talk it out and if it doesn’t work, then go ahead and fuck someone else. But you should respect your partner enough to tell them what you’re doing.


55: Are you mean?

Yeah. I try not to be and generally I’m really chill and easy-going, but if someone fucks with me or someone I care about, I have no problem making them feel like shit. Again, not a good trait about me, but I can be cold-hearted if I want to be.


56: How many people have you fist fought?

Not that many, outside sports and stuff like that. And I believe fighting with your brother as kids doesn’t count but… I’d say 4, maybe? I’ve hit some people, I’ve gotten hit myself.


57: Do you believe in true love?

No. I don’t do relationships. Sure, you can love someone but I don’t believe that’s for me, at least right now.


58: Favourite weather?

Sunny and +30 degrees Celsius.


59: Do you like the snow?

Depends. We had -30 degrees Celsius weather and so fucking much snow two weeks ago it was like climate change never happened and I have to admit, I loved it. I’m not a winter person, but if I had to choose between this winter and last winter (when it was raining and +2 all the time), I’d definitely take this one. Snow is beautiful and it does bring light to the darkness.


60: Do you wanna get married?

Probably not.


61: Is it cute when a boy/girl calls you baby?

That’s not really a thing in Finnish. We don’t really have babynames for people we’re dating. Finns in general don’t address people by name that much unless they wanna get their attention. If it’s just two people, using names is a very awkward thing in Finnish culture. So no. And to be honest, I’d probably rather be called a fucktoy than a baby so no thanks.


62: What makes you happy?

Sleeping. Food. My cat. Coffee. Friends and family.


63: Would you change your name?

I don’t like my given names that much and most of my friends who know me from high school call me by my last name anyway. We have two same-named people in our friend group, so that’s easier. I could change my first name, but I like my last name. Don’t wanna change that in case I get married or something.


64: Would it be hard to kiss the last person you kissed?

No, definitely not.


65: Your best friend of the opposite sex likes you, what do you do?

Nothing much. Talk to them, maybe. If they actually like me, that might be awkward but if they wanna fuck or something, I’m down for that.


66: Do you have a friend of the opposite sex who you can act your complete self around?

Yeah, many. I’ve always been more comfortable around boys than girls anyway. It was only in high school that I actually got well along with girls. If I’m at a party, I’m that one girl you will find talking with the guys about that one hot girl from school rather than be involved in the drama all girls have when they get drunk.


67: Who was the last person of the opposite sex you talked to?

My chemistry/microbiology teacher today at school. In real life, I mean.


68: Who’s the last person you had a deep conversation with?

Three friends that I was hanging out with last week.


69: Do you believe in soulmates?



70: Is there anyone you would die for?

Yeah, I wouldn’t mind dying for most of my family or friends. I don’t really care. In general, I don’t hold my life above others’.

Submitted: January 29, 2021

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LE. Berry

So nice to know you in this moment in time helmu...

Fri, January 29th, 2021 9:18pm

88 fingers

I thought about answering your questions. But having answers from a 57 year old guy might not be what you want to read.

Sat, January 30th, 2021 11:14pm

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