Whatever we do repeatedly we do so for a reason or a reward. The habits we develop and the experiences we create no matter how negative fulfil a deep seated need within us. This need is linked directly to a belief we hold about ourselves, if you change the belief you will ultimately change the habit and the corresponding experience it creates.
According to Guru Granth Sahib ji,' From woman, man is born; within woman, man is conceived; to woman he is engaged and married.
Woman becomes his friend; through woman, the future generations come.
When his woman dies, he seeks another woman; to woman he is bound.
So why call her inferior? From her, kings are born.
From woman, woman is born; without woman, there would be no one at all'...
Drinking the Kool - Aid is a metaphor, which was originally derived from the deaths at Jonestown, where the pastor Jim Jones got almost everyone in his congregation to drink poisoned Kool-Aid. Nine hundred and nine inhabitants of Jonestown, three hundred and four of them children, committed suicide out of loyalty to their leader. Drink the Kool-Aid means to become an unquestioning believer in some ideology, or to accept an argument or philosophy wholeheartedly or blindly without critical examination. In other words, a yes man.