Domestic Violence 4-10yrs

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Domestic violence has huge effect on young people. These problems are created by many reasons. If the young person is living in an environment where there are many domestic violence & family conflicts there life will be miserable. These environments are not suitable for such person to grow up.

Submitted: December 13, 2011

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Domestic violence has huge effect on young people. These problems are created by many reasons. If the young person is living in an environment where there are many domestic violence & family conflicts there life will be miserable. These environments are not suitable for such person to grow up. Even these problems will have huge effect on their personality for the rest of their lives. These problems will have deep emotional harm on these children. Young people suffer much more badly from these problems than adults since they will be deeply thinking about these problems in their daily lives. 98

These problems will help them to think negatively about their future life in each & every second. They will be always thinking when these problems will be stopped. Young people will always be seeking to get a safety from the society. They will be looking to live soothing life. They will be trying to get reassurance from the society that they will never face such problems in the future. In this manner they will hope to get comfort from the society. They will be really seeking predictability in their environment to reach their dream in the future. 98

In order to avoid the young people from these problems we must work hard to do everything possible & we can. In this manner a reliable & positive relationship is important to helping children & young people manage the stress& trauma they cause from these problems. The main reason is ongoing domestic violence & family problems stop parents from proving proper care to their young children. If you are in an abusive relationship it will even make extremely more difficult. This means if you are in a relation like that, you will be only thinking about those problems & will be looking to find a way out from those problems. This will avoid you from thinking and caring about your children in the best way you have to. 128

Young people are important part of any society. They are in the path to adulthood. This means we must look them carefully to give better education & other necessary information to give them a better life in the future as well as to make them responsible citizen in the future. If they are living with domestic violence & family conflict we cannot provide them a better life. In the young age these audiences will be facing many problems. They will be facing very important issues regarding their identity, finding work and financial freedom, sexuality, intimate relationships, finding meaning in their lives & keeping friends. We must advice them about all those problems to keep in the right track. Otherwise they may be lost in the domestic violence or family conflicts.

People living with domestic violence & family violence can be noticed from their behaviors. These people behavior differs from that of others. These people will love risk taking in their lives. They will be more aggressive than that of other young people. They will always blame their parents who are being abused. They will tend to use violence to solve their daily problems thinking violence is the only solution. On the other hand they will use sexual violence which is dangerous even to them while abusing alcohol or other illegal drugs. They young people also think violence is a natural part of a relationship and an acceptable way to get what they want. On the other hand, in the case of young girls they tend to believe they must live under young boys & ask for abuse since they think it’s natural. These young people who have domestic violence & family conflict have many personal problems like depression, stress, worrying, loss of confidence, feeling worthless, frightened & many other personal & emotional problems.

These domestic violence & family conflicts create many social problems. Young people living with domestic & family violence think real man use force to do everything they want & achieve. They also believe man have the right & duty to oversee, direct & judge a women`s activities. They also think man have the authority to punish the women if they think they failed to meet their standards or predict their needs. On the other hand young women feel they should be able to predict, interpret and full fill their partner`s needs. They believe their partner`s judgment is more valuable than theirs. They also believe they must be punished for disappointing the partner. They also accept they should answer to their partners only. In this manner it creates fear in their hearts to believe they are nothing in this society.

In order to eradicate these problems we must work hard. That’s to provide better environment for our young people. We social workers can aid these young people to reach high goals in their lives. Even the parents can play an important role in this. The parents must try to stop family conflict. The society can work hard to create awareness among the people to bring a halt to this domestic violence. We can encourage our youth in relationships with respectful & non-violent models. We can advice them in taking good disciplined friends. We can remember them that the adolescence in the best time in making plans for the future & that they can achieve their goal if they strive for that. We can really support them in social & sports activities where there is no violence. We can give them career guidance, advice, planning for a better future where they can have a life free from domestic violence & family conflicts. In this manner we can keep our young people avoid from all the domestic violence & family conflicts. This means they will try the same & in the end we can have a society free from these problems.

 


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