What is Love?

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It is about what i think love really is and trying to help others understand what it is.

Submitted: August 14, 2013

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   What is Love?

I think love is from your heart, your soul and your brain even when you don't think you love someone you do but just don't feel it. You get all types of love - Love for everyone

- Love for friends

- love for that guy or girl

- and especially love for family even if you dislike them

 

Love is a mystery that never can be solved. If you push the person you love away you still have those fellings. Your brain still see's them. When you don't want to love someone you still love them but when you want to love someone you don't love them. Love can play tricks on people making people think they love that person one minute then the next you don't. Love isn't a choice you can't chouse to love someone your heart does. Somethings you love is not really love as in

- you have love for chocolate

- a love for emerge

- love for your bed

- your house

- love for that one bag

 

These things can be your heart playing tricks on you. Love is a powerful neurological condition just like thirst and hunger but permanent. We have no control over love. Love is free you can't buy love but it binds us all together. Love can ber devided into three entites for example you have- Lust

Lust is when you are craving for sexual gratifications which you can feel for a whole range of different people.

You also have- Romance

Romance love is much more powerful than sex drive. When people have Romance love they find it a great feeling as they may have never felt it before.

The third brain system is a thing a few people tend to do maybe they mean it but maybe they don't it is called- Attachment

Attachment a lot os guys could get attached to a gilr and a girl could also get attached to that one guy. This can be associated with hormoned vasopressin and oxytocin they could get this after they had sex.

Love can improve your health

In my eyes i think love can improve your health. I think if you are happy in a relationship it can make you live longer than being single or divorced or maybe a widowed as it can bring depression into your life.

Bad Love

I think if you chose the wrong person you could be in trouble.You my become unhappy maybe unhappy marriage. I researched that 60 per cent of women who are divorced are likely to get heart diseases in later life.

Love is blind

Love can be blind, you may not realise you like that one person as you think you love someone else. People in the world have had a memory of their enemy and hated that enemy but later in life got married and settled down to have a family.

Broken hearts

Even though love can be a good thing it can also be bad as you can be heart broken and death rate gets higher. When someone has a broken heart they are more likely to do something they may be regret further on in life.

What is love?

Love you can't buy so it can't be bought and it can't be sold either. I think that love is bigger than you are. You can invite love but you can't decite how?,when?, and where love expresses itself, If worst comes to worst you could surrender to love, or not, but in the end love strikes like lightening, unpredictable and irrefulable. You can not make someone love you nor can prevent it.

This peice of work was written in August 2013 and right now as i am writing it is March,2019 and you know what i have learned over the years about love is:

Love changes you as a person even when you don't want it to. When i first wrote this i had never been in love, i had been in relationships with boys of course but none of it was meaning full. In 2015 i did fall in love and it was heart pounding gut wrenching love. Your first love is magically you don't quite understand it, you sit there and think what am i feeling is this real and it is. Your first love is powerful but for those relationships that don't last when you finally meet your soulmate your love will be magical and overwhelming.

In 2013 i knew what love was but i had never experienced it and then i did and when it comes to love you would do anything for a person, you would stick around during all the hard times. You would stick around even if they treated you like shit or used you for sex because you love them and it would break you to walk away. You would do anything for the person you love even if it meant jumping in front of them when they are about to get hut by a car so that you get hurt the most and not them because you can't bare to see them in pain. When you love someone it is like you feel whole, like your whole life has come together and all those broken pieces of your life join back together and your just whole again. But another part of love is when you love someone so much you have to let them go for their own good or for your own good because you know if you were to stay with them it wouldn't be right.

Love is having to make hard decisions, Love is not harming each other or cheating because you were bored. Love is when some one sticks by you through all the hard times. Love is when two people become two best friends who decide to take on the world as a tag team, where they realise they can't spend the rest of their lives with out one another because it would drive them crazy. Love is when that person drives you crazy but that's why you love them. Love is when you love some one not for their appearance but for who they are on the inside because that's what matters. Love is so many things and once you experience it then it makes you never want to let go and the thing is love isn't easy, there is heartbreak and tears but you have to be willing to fight for what you want.


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