If the Cheating was still going on: I know this was not the situation, but I have no tolerance for husbands who are still cheating or can not leave each other or the other woman go. If this is the
case, the husband deserves every negative emotion hurled his way. Do not defend or stand up for him in any way. Wives often say in this situation to tell their husbands even pollute the atmosphere
with their presence until they can not prove and demonstrate that the deal is completely and totally over Sweat Miracle, who understood very well fall outside of their actions, I am full of remorse
for them and are ready, willing and able to do what needs to be done to rectify the situation.
If he is stopped cheating and he Remorseful: hate cheating without hating the person on the other hand, a man who is sincere in his desire and the desire to be fully fit is another story. If he has made every effort to make amends, it is completely open, with its location and its intentions and is showing patience, honesty and vulnerability in forward motion, then at some point, especially if you want to save the marriage, healthy thing to do is at least to entertain the idea that you can project your hatred and betrayal of the law on the person who caused these things.
Yes, what he did is despicable and unfortunately you can not take back. Yes, you are right and normal to hate what this has done to my life. It is understandable for the hatred of the betrayal and the fact that your life has been turned upside down. But this decrease the positive things and loving this man has done? In my case, at some point I woke up one day and realized that my husband was still the man who never left the side of my son when he was sick, who worked two jobs when we got married in the first place, that he sold his collection of priceless baseball so that my children would they necessarily (and the list goes on and on.) This does not buy him a get of jail free card, but I could not deny that it mattered. At some points, I had to ask myself if it had enough. But in the end, as I began to heal
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