Is it Love or is it just like ?

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Status: Finished  |  Genre: Romance  |  House: Booksie Classic

You can fall in like with a few people at the same time but you can only fall in love with one person at a same time

Through my experiences, i found out that you can actually like a person without falling in love with them no matter how nice they treated you or how much they did for you. You can't deny there are no feelings in between but its just not love. Sometimes those feelings can be friendship, lust, brotherly or sisterly kind of relationships and so on. Love is not just a feeling towards another person, love is so much for than that, you don't just look at a pretty girl with a nice body and fall in love with her, to me that's falling in like instead of falling in love.

According to the bible love is "Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things" 1 Conrinthians 13:4-7 . From this verse, i found out that it is actually very true, most of the time to us love is the warm fuzzy feeling when you meet the one, your heart beats faster than usual. Yes, but that's only part of it. What is love ?. In my opinion love is more than just feelings, it takes time getting to know the person, knowing different sides of him/her, learning to live and bear with the good and bad sides of the person. Why do we always hear stuff like don't date someone because your too young or wait till you're mature enough, are you sure he/she is the right person?, are you ready? think carefully. That is why kids and teenagers or even ammature adults tend to fall in and out of love so quickly.

One of the reason behind this is because of love at first sight. Love at first sight is actually more of a destructive situation rather than a romantic situation. Why?. First impressions are always very important, just like in interviews, no one likes a sloppy and messy job seeker. But when it comes to love, you can't just fall in love when you see a person for the first time and he/she is being so nice,polite and dressed up neatly. Fairy tales are for children. So what if both of them fall in love at the first sight, is this relationship going to last? If so how long?  will the person be the same like the first time you saw him/her? Most importantly are you still going to love him/her when you see his/her other sides?. Yes, indeed there are so many questions emerging when you think of it in depth. That is why the during wedding ceremonies there are vows like would you take this man/woman as your lawfully wedded wife/husband for better or worse, in sickness and in health for richer or poorer and etc.

Only people that are in love should get married, marriage is not a child's play and the vows made are made in front of God. That basically means that you made a vow at the Lord's house that you will take care of that person no matter what happens and its a big responsibility. If people with ammature mentality gets married, marriage will turn into a haven of sorrows instead of a gateway to happiness. So we should all think carefully when choosing the one and only and is it a falling in like? or a falling in love situation?

 

 


Submitted: November 30, 2014

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