14 Steps to Becoming Straight.

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Just my opinion about programs that help you "become straight".

Submitted: December 27, 2009

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Submitted: December 27, 2009



i typed in
"homosexuals anonymous"
and Some stuff popped out
this being one of them
And it really pissed me off
a lot
so i had to share my side
put my opinion
put you in my shoes....

The 14 Steps

1. We admitted that we were powerless over our homosexuality and that
our emotional lives were unmanageable.

(How the hell can you control what you feel? Powerless, yes, You cant
control you Heterosexuality can you?)

2. We came to believe the love of God, who forgave us and accepted us
in spite of all that we are and have done.

(God accepted us from the beginning, he made us the way we are, We
don't choose to be, and we sure as hell are not developed that way, we
are who we are, we can say otherwise, but can never change that fact)

3. We learned to see purpose in our suffering, that our failed lives
were under God's control, who is able to bring good out of trouble.

(So, Our homosexuality, has brought us suffering? What trouble? There
is no trouble in our lives, the only trouble created is by those who
judge, and dont accept Homosexuals for who they are, the ones that
believe only "heterosexuals" are "normal")

4. We came to believe that God had already broken the power of
homosexuality and that He could therefore restore our true personhood.

(God cant break anything, i love him with all my heart, but he cant
change what he has created, he made you gay, you are gay, thats that,
you can try to believe otherwise, but always, you will have the small
pain in you chest, slowly growing and pressing down at you, until it
finally, makes you collapse)

5. We came to perceive that we had accepted a lie about ourselves, an
illusion that had trapped us in a false identity.

(What lie exactly? Is there no longer no such thing as Homosexuality?
Or, Is the lie, about, people believing they are "homosexuals" when in
fact there "not"? No the lie here, is the lie created by this
treatment, making them push there selves out, and move in what you
want them to be, so that they can in fact be "normal")

6. We learned to claim our true reality that as humankind, we are part
of God's heterosexual creation and that God calls us to rediscover
that identity in Him through Jesus Christ, as our faith perceives Him.

(Gods Heterosexual creation... True, as he created a Man And A Woman,
Was it the only way, God wanted, A Man and a Woman? He created to
separate for that sole purpose, to make our decisions, based on what
we feel, not because, of the Man and Woman, if in fact, it was for
that, Why not create just one, person, one whole body, both Man and
Woman? Could that not be easier? Instead of giving, Human Kind so many
other options? Heterosexuals are not the only ones around, and they
never will be the only ones around, And the sure as HELL ARE NOT the
"Right" Or "normal" way)

7. We resolved to entrust our lives to our loving God and to live by
faith, praising Him for our new unseen identity, confident that it
would become visible to us in God's good time.

(We all Love god, He is our father, No matter what he makes us go
through, we still love him with all our hearts, Faith, By Faith, We
hope that soon, others will realize this Idiotic behavior, and stop
this Foolishness, Its killing us, And tearing us all apart, when in
fact, we are suppose to be together? New UNSEEN IDENTITIES? No just a
lie, Nothing more, But Lies. Visible only to those, who will allow
themselves to become blind.

8. As forgiven people free from condemnation, we made a searching and
fearless moral inventory of ourselves, determined to root out fear,
hidden hostility, and contempt for the world.

(Forgiven people..A term not taken to lightly.. Since when where we in
sin? And for what reason? Did not choose to feel what we feel, nor do
Heterosexuals, choose to feel what they feel, they just do, How can
you be so certain that is the natural order? The only order? We are
only Condemned by those, who try and change us, and those who makes us
believe we have changed, never by Our Father, For he, Himself,
Accepted us,and Shall never condemn us. If only the world can be so
determined in rooting out fear... Instead of planting it deeper...The
Hostilities.. Are not hidden no longer.. They're shown... Words do
hurt.. as a matter of fact..)

9. We admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the
exact nature of our wrongs and humbly asked God to remove our defects
of character.

(defects.. From our character? Our wrongs? What wrongs, Its just that
side of the table isn't it? I see, that a Heterosexual couple is the
nature of our wrongs, and that they should humbly ask god to remove
THEIR defects, This doesnt sound so nice does it? Imagine, you, The
only Heterosexual person in the world, While all others stair down at
you,and try and make you change, to feel otherwise, How does that feel
then, Do you in fact think they can change you? Will you surrender to
it? God Shall do nothing, For he created us, WITH NO DEFECTS! He

10. We willingly made direct amends wherever wise and possible to all
people we had harmed.

(What people were harmed?Oh The only one... The one, In fact, Trying
to change, for their "bettering", To become a "normal" person, to
finally be accepted.. And we should Apologize, For trying to change,
For the sake of others? Or should we be given the Apology?)

11. We determined to live no longer in fear of the world, believing
that God's victorious control turns all that is against us into our
favor, bringing advantage out of sorrow and order from disaster.

(No fear, Only for those, who allow themselves to have been sucked
down and/or brainwashed with these idiotic ways, no way in hell, are
they're any NORMAL ways what so ever! everyone is different, and
that's how God intended it to be. For we are Different... yet All the

12. We determined to mature in our relationships with men and women,
learning the meaning of a partnership of equals, seeking neither
dominance over people nor servile dependency on them.

(Well.. A homosexual couple can complete this can they not?
heterosexuals are not the only ones that can accomplish things, they
are not NORMAL, they are exactly the same as us, there just on the
other side of the street, looking at us, Questioning why we have not
yet crossed, to there side, why we must be on the other side, unlike

13. We sought through confident praying, and the wisdom of Scripture
for an ongoing growth in our relationship with God and a humble
acceptance of His guidance for our lives.

(God helps us, All the time,And never ever Stops Loving us! I pray,
and am confident, God gives me the power to continue, to stand up, to
fight back, He has guided my life, And, I will not allow myself to be,
Overthrown, and/or changed, by you ignorant fools, whose eyes, are to
close, to see what is right in front of you, what you have created, to
see, what you can do)

14. Having had a spiritual awakening, we tried to carry this message
to homosexual people with a love that demands nothing and to practice
these steps in all our lives' activities, as far as lies within us.

(And another thing, What with the labels, Gay,Straight,Lesbian,
Bi,Trans gender, Does it truly matter? Judged by the content of our
charecters, not the fact, of our differences, God gives us the power,
To Accept what we cannot change, and the power, To change what we can.
This not being one of the things that can be changed, only masked.

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