In the mind of a female gender

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Status: Finished  |  Genre: Memoir  |  House: Booksie Classic

I have found that in my years that all things are done for a reason!

It has been my findings in the years that I have spent here on earth that most man do not tell their woman enough how beautiful they are. I feel that beauty comes from the inside that this is the shell that God gave me to carry my soul around, however that does not mean I don't like to hear that I am pretty.Most men get comfortable with their significant other and do not express to them enough how attractive they find them. Alot of relationship go south because of a lack of communication between couples well here is one example of such. Does it hurt to say you look beautiful,lovely, or even great, I think not! But what does hurt is you not saying it at all, by conveying this to your mate you will exprience a totally different attitude from them.Today for example I left my apartment to go to a meeting and realized after leaving the building that I had locked myself out.So there I was stranded on the street not knowing how I was going to get back in, I started to walk down the street heading to the landlord's place of business.Two gentlemen approached me, quite younger then myself. One ask me how I was doing with a big smile on his face, ingoring my present situation I said fine. As they past he turned around and said you are a very beautiful lady, and then kept walking. That to me meant a great deal and from that one phrase brought me a sense of peace, and I was able to get thru my situation with out to much difficulty. So tell your someone that you find them attractive and make their day just a little bit, or even a whole lot brighter maybe it will make yours as well from that one act of kindness.

Mable Showers 2/24/09


Submitted: February 25, 2009

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Dorian Patrick Blue

Now hold on there, Mable.
I get the gist of what you are saying, and I will heed your advice to let my wife know that her "outer shell" still attracts me, even after thirty years of marriage, but I'm a little leery about giving compliments to women that I don't know, as the two gentlemen did for you. I have done so in the past, and the reactions from women have been mixed. Some look at me as though I'm just making a pass or maybe being fresh. Hmmm... maybe it's my delivery. Okay, I'll work on it.

Interestingly enough, I went to lunch with my wife yesterday. We saw a girl that was waiting for a bus. We knew that there would be no bus in that area at that time. After I dropped-off my wife back to work, I saw the girl walking. I knew that she would have to walk over a mile to find another bus-stop, so I pulled over and asked her if she wanted a ride. I spent several minutes assuring her that I wasn't a john, or a rapist, or a serial killer before she consented to the ride. I actually took her to her destination. My good deed for the day. I could have complimented her on her feminine qualities, and it even crossed my mind, but I felt that it might have been taken as a come-on.

Anyway, I know what you mean, and I agree that it would be nice for both of us if I remember to compliment my wife more often.

Blue

Fri, December 18th, 2009 7:51pm

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