facts about "Love"

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Status: Finished  |  Genre: Non-Fiction  |  House: Booksie Classic
some facts i thought i'd write about love and relationships.
if you think that there is anything i can add feel free to comment

Submitted: June 13, 2014

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Love. What does it even mean? We live our lives clueless, pretending to care about someone and love them, when in fact we don’t even know what love is. Many seem to be living their happy lives, so certain that what they feel towards someone is love, but what if it is not? This is how it basically goes: you are on one side as the other person is on the other; you meet that person, whether by coincidence or plan. You either go on a date if asked or become just friends at first. If you go on a date, and it’s a lunch date, it means the one who asked the other one out is taking things slowly, for reasons that only him can know, or still doesn’t know. If you go for dinner, then things more likely to get intimate, a lunch date can also be intimate, but it’ll be a different kind of intimacy. After you go to that lunch date, you are most likely to go on another one, and if lucky go for dinner at a decent restaurant. If not it’s another stupid lunch date until the person feels ready to move to the second level; dinner. And if you went for a dinner, and you were enough lucky, you’d go home with that someone and have sex, and never meet again, unless you liked that sex and decided to meet again and keep the sex going, with no strings attached. But if you are in a different kind of luck, that someone will walk you or drive you home, and on the door steps he’d kiss you a goodnight with a small meaningful hug, and of course go on another fucking date, then another, then another, and on the fourth, if not the third already, you’d have sex for the first time. And probably from then on you’ll have a constant sex. And in a couple of weeks or even less you become a couple that posts everything they fucking do on social media and change their facebook status from being helplessly single to in a relationship. Then you think you are lucky enough that you or he or she have to propose, you make up this whole proposal plan, and get married few months after. Or if you are afraid of commitments you delay the wedding as much as you can until you think you feel ready. BUT, then there’s this other thing, when you meet that someone and become friends. Or you get along at the very beginning, share things and find out there are some things in common, you start hanging out together, breakfast, lunch, dinner, even go clubbing together. After a while, you’ll have too much drinks at someone’s place, and you drunk kiss each other, which will surprise you but won’t stop you, because you’re too drunk to realize it, until you both have sex and wake up next to each other, you leave that friend on bed early, and regret it happened afraid it will change your friendship, or you stay in bed until he or she finally wake up so you can talk about it, as if it’s not weird and awkward already, or you get up and make fucking breakfast, pretending it’s normal what just happened. If you leave that bed and decide to avoid it, it will get weirder, you miss that friend, and of course after the sex you assume you miss him because he or she mean something to you, so you wait a while until they finally decide to fucking contact you. If they do, you meet and talk and decide where it will go, if they don’t, you contact them, admit the feelings you think you have because of that drunken sex and that friend denies them and you leave again, but this time it will hurt more. If he or she do share the same feelings, you both kiss and hug, and decide to take it to the next level of dating and holding hands. But if you decide to stay in bed and talk about it immediately after the other one wakes up, you both choose to pretend it never happened, and from that point your friendship also turns to be fucking awkward. You will meet less and less until you both lose touch. BUT, if that friend decided to make breakfast, it means two things, or he is too embarrassed about what happened that he thinks morning-after-sex-breakfast will ease the awkwardness, or he was desperately waiting for this that he wanted more than just friendship, and there might be a change he wasn’t even drunk. The other part of friendship is, you go on breakfast dates and lunch together, even hang out in each other’s apartments until one starts to have feelings and ask the other out, that’s if he’s not that shy and intimidated. And at that point to things may come: or they say yes and you go on dates and share more intimate things, and become couples after a while, and then comes the point when you change your facebook status from being fucking friends into being in a relationship, and then after a while you or she or he propose and then get married and probably have kids, if not you’d fight about it because one wants the kids the other thinks it is too fucking soon.  But if that person doesn’t share the same feelings, you slowly start losing contact because that someone who doesn’t share the same feelings starts to avoid you slowly, pretending they’re busy and stuff until you hear nothing of each other. Either way, whether you become friends or immediately go on dates and become couples, at some point, you will get tired and sick of each other, or you will fight constantly over stupid facebook status or a guy or another girl or on the stupid laundry. Or even kids and work and shit. If married that chanced are you cheat on your husband or wife and get divorced and never speak to each other again, or if you have kids you decide to talk only when it comes to them. Or you still stay together for the sake of your kids, but never have intimate relationships or conversations with each other unless it has something to do with the kids, you both will be miserable and unhappy until you get older. And then you think you can work through it, maybe you will and maybe you won’t. If you don’t cheat and still get divorced, or you keep in touch, whether you have kids or not, or lose touch, whether you have kids or not. Either way, nothing stays the same between you. If you’re not married, you break up, and you lose touch of each other, unless you are in the same circle of friends, which will be weird at first. Or one of you decided to stop showing to the meetings and stuff, or you both keep meeting within that circle until you get drunk again and have sex again which will obviously complicate it even more.

 

Love or not, marriage or divorce, friendship or couple, parents or not, cheated or not. Either way, you will end up hurt and feeling stupid, heartbroken at some point, or constantly. You will lose your way, and all that because of the love, that you thought you felt toward someone who you thought cared.

 


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