Angela, 25 years old was all and has everything a responsible and loving man needs in a woman .Her cares ,sincerity,respect,and faithfuness to her husband has earned adoration for all and sundry.Though, trust which is the hallmak of every lasting union ,was in the relatonship with Temi ,30 a banker ended abruptly,after he had an affair with the landlords daughter , Tola, resulting to two months old pregnancy,just six months into there wedding.
Since creation ,God a perfect being ,instituted marriage to be a union between a man and a woman for this purpose of peaceful co-existence and most importantly procreation-sexual affection.
The women folk are of the opinion that men easily involve in extra marital affrairs than women.Buttresssing this point ,first, poverty is seen as a major problem which leads to etra marital affairs.Second,lack of trust between couples can breed extra marital affair because trust is one of the pillars of marriage. A man who feels his partner is cheating on him can seek solace in the arms of another woman vis-a-vis.
Thirdly, sexual insatisfaction plays another role on the part of the woman, wich is believed that men love sex alot, therefore ,a woman who exploits this as a weapon will likely have a man to herself forever.It may be absurd, but studies have shown that men who cheat on their partners arestarved of good sex
Also ,the problem of misplaced priority ,that is a working class woman who gives a better percentage of her time to her job, indirectly creates an avenue for the man to engage in extra marital affairs.Again, infertility can mare a relationship if a couple finds it difficult to conceive, the housemaid in this case becomes an alternative.
In addition, the society has been eaten up by mordern moth;inproper dressing believe to be fashion has not done any good to remedy the situation. Seductive dresses worn by ladies have in one way or the other encourage extra marital affiar since the men folk are easily carried away by what they can see that is physical attraction.
In this fashion women who need thier partners to complement their good looks but never recieve such complements seek else where for such complement.
By implication, extra marital affairs has led to the disintegration of families, there by resulting into diseases (HIV AIDS) which leads to untimely death,unwanted pregnancy which leds to abortion,poor parentage which breed miscreants ,as a result of divorce and broken homes.
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