They Don't Matter

Reads: 152  | Likes: 0  | Shelves: 0  | Comments: 2

  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Reddit
  • Pinterest
  • Invite

More Details
Status: Finished  |  Genre: Young Adult  |  House: Booksie Classic
You should never give in. People gonna hate let 'em. Do your own thing.

Submitted: December 07, 2013

A A A | A A A

Submitted: December 07, 2013

A A A

A A A


“That just seems something out of a book. Get real, girl!”

“What do you know? You’re too shallow for this.”

“Oh she thinks that my pink lip gloss didn’t go well with my lavender skirt! What does she know about fashion?”

Okay so after reading my piece of writing you should not come under the category “you think I care about you? Well, darn you’re right :( ” but instead “you think I give a crap about what you say? Dude, I don’t even wanna answer you. Think whatever you want :) ” . And if you don’t switch to the second category sooner or later then I’m so NOT sorry to say that you’re a jerk! Yes, a jerk :) if you do care about what I call you then call me ;) I mean phone call :P 03338768332 there ;)

Okay. So first things first. People tell me all the time that they are not “pretty enough” or they are not beautiful. Okay tell me one thing. What does pretty even mean? You often confuse the words pretty and beautiful together. Both of them have different meanings. Even in the dictionary. Pretty means “pleasing or attractive to the eye” while beautiful means “having beauty”.  And what exactly beauty is? I’m sorry but that’s kinda inexplicable.

Dictionary says “the quality present in a thing or person that gives intense pleasure or deep satisfaction to the mind, whether arising from sensory manifestations (as shape, color, sound, etc.), a meaningful design or pattern, or something else (as a personality in which high spiritual qualities are manifest).”  (Yeah you probably didn’t even get it…told ya it’s dictionary :P)

Media says “long blonde hair, blue eyes, high cheekbones, full lips, size 10 or even 0: actually the skinnier the better.” (here you’d probably be like yeah now she’s talkin’ sense :P)

She says “straight black hair, pale skin, brown eyes, cute cheeks, full lips and little chubby. The cuter the better :)

He says “Brunette, tanned skin, big navy eyes, high cheekbones, glossy lips, long legs, the hotter the better ;) ” (hmmm I know know ;) )

I say “All of that ain’t ‘beautiful’ you dumdums it’s ‘pretty’

There’s a difference between two. Pretty is pleasing for the eye. Then how can you say you ain’t pretty enough? In somebody’s eyes you might not be ‘pretty enough’ but someone might think you’re a fashion model! Some may like blondes while others may prefer brunettes but that doesn’t mean that either of them ain’t pretty. Blue eyes look pretty but hey brown is warm ;) She may think that blue eyes are just so icy and cold but he may like ‘em because they remind him of the ocean. Similarly, pale-skinned may like tan skin but tan skinned may like really ‘snow-white-skin’. And it goes on and on and on…So what I’m trying to say is that pretty varies with the eyes.

Alright, so now what does beauty mean? That's a question people have been asking since the beginning of time, and truly, the answer is as different and as true as each person who answers it. So in MY OPINION, “when you see the best in everything and everyone, not only in a person but also in a situation, when you think about making someone else happy, when you don’t compare anybody or judge anybody, when you will to help a stranger, when you have a big heart, so in general when you have a beautiful soul. If you qualify either of these then you’re beautiful in my opinion :)”

Now the problem is everyone concentrates on being pretty but not being beautiful.

A nice hairdo, flawless makeup, cute outfit and high heels may make you look pretty but definitely not beautiful. Your body can be hot, your face can be pretty but only your mind can be beautiful.

Now this is the part where some of you’d be like “That just seems something out of a book. Get real, girl!” and this is also the part where I’ll move towards the other issue I’ve been longing to talk about. Dealing with judgmental people. People judge okay? That’s what they do. They don’t care if you’re hurt or whatever, they just wanna judge and they’re gonna do that. So the solution is that just ignore them. Yeah I know, it ain’t easy…like AT ALL but you gotta give it a try. Trust me you’ll thank me later ;). So the crap I’m writing right now is going to receive SO much criticism and I know it. But hey I don’t care alright? If you think that this seems something right out of a book then let it be. In fact you should give it more importance that it’s already been published and praise me even more that I wrote all this without even reading it. Plus it also means that I’m not the only freak who thinks this way. Woohoo! Shout out for me! ;) now see, I don’t even know if all this already exists but I have so many positive points set out in front of me already,  just in case ;) So the point is that just don’t give a damn about what someone else thinks. People think bad things about you all the time, they just don’t voice it, so you don’t ever get to know and you don’t react. So if they do voice them, just assume that you can read their mind like Edward Cullen and know what they think about you and be cautious around those jerks. Don’t react because that’s what they want. So don’t let what people think get you in any way. And if it does get you then please just PRETEND you don’t give a damn. You can do that much, right? :P. Oh and if you’re one of those jerks who make stupid judgments about people you barely know then… Ef you!

This bordered around the people you don’t know who pass remarks about you and that it shouldn’t affect you. But if someone you know does that, then…let’s face it; it hurts…bad. And I think you should react to that kinda situation, but not like “you said that about me?! I’ll kill ya!” and strangle them to death. Um…because that won’t be cool :P. You’ll probably just end up rotting in some juvenile jail :P  So…yeah…just don’t do that. Ever.  

When people who are close to you hurt you then you can be pretty torn apart. If you REALLY care about them, that is :P. So I’d recommend asking them the reason for their hurtful act and clear it up. Who knows it could just be a misunderstanding :). But if it’s not so and they did do that then I think you should move on. Find somebody who’s actually trustworthy and who really does care about you.  Then again if they are REALLY important to you then forgive them and give them another chance but I don’t think you should let your guard down until you regain their trust.

Oh and btw all this relies on the fact that they apologize and admit their mistake but if they don’t then they’re probably not the same anymore and think again why are you even with them.

Now I’ve heard girls call other girls un-cool or “pappu” as they say it in their local lingo just because that girl doesn’t use slang. Even if they’re kidding, it must get to her sometimes and she might start to question herself.  Now would someone please tell me is it nice to use slang? Ironic how I used them in this essay or whatever this is :P.  but if someone doesn’t know the meanings of these words I ain’t gonna call that person “un-cool”  they might have their own style which might just be a total opposite of mine. If one uses a street lingo and someone else chooses a sophisticated and polite way of communicating with others, over it, then what the hell is wrong with it?! Now I can be a li’l “streetish” sometimes but I also know when to behave myself. So the point is if someone is polite and okay maybe a li’l formal, then please let them be. You don’t need to criticize them for everything you know. Everybody has their own styles and preferences so just get over it! (Yeah yeah some jerk called me pappu yesterday! Hey I’ve got a heart too! :P xD)

There are different types of people around you. Everybody has their own stories that made them the way they are today. You need to accept the fact that they are different than you are. Some people like to pass remarks about others, some don’t. Those who do, have their own reasons to do so. It may be a broken heart, a disturbed family, or they’re insecure and bully people to feel good about themselves. If you wanna survive in this hellish place then you gotta ignore these people and make this “hellish place” your heaven. Not by bad means though :P

So the point of this “thing” was to give my opinions on how to deal with people passing stupid remarks about you. No matter who they are you gotta deal with it cleverly ;)

 


© Copyright 2020 SyedaK. All rights reserved.

  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • Reddit
  • Pinterest
  • Invite

Add Your Comments:

Comments