Ten (10) Reasons why some ladies end up single for life

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1. Many ladies will end up singles for life because of media exposure - it is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels?
2. Many ladies now dislike cooking and home chores just because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family, and due to excessive exposure to modern media that promotes gender-equalityin a destructiveway that’saimed at destroying family settingthat made our previous marriageseverlasting­. Now, with this attitude,how do you expect a man to desire to marry when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than helperfor himself?
3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded men off- if you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive makeup, and more don’t even like it at all; reason theyoften times discourage their true loved ones to do away with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men will applaud and complement you for looking like an Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you are outfor marriage, try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-minded,excep­t you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage.
4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Joystick & Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement.
5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or Are Dating- because your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that finally married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to hislife isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life,lending himmoral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved.
6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you expect to find a husband when you still allow yourclique of friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy of your love and which is not? When will you wake up and face the factthat those your best friends even though they cherish you, wouldn’twant you to marry before them orto marry the best man?
7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As asingle lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserveit at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had beenconstantly denied while being single. Such privileges include andnot limited to: constant s*x and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single man gets even the bestandof course more of constant s*x, good food and excellent home-keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to desire to marry you when you have given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all isthat he knows that you are prepared to cut down on s*x supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so why would he notwant you to remain his girlfriend for life?
8. You Package yourself wrongly- in your attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest; more distractive than attractive, and more disgusting than adorable.Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most times. If you dress high school, only high school-thinkingguys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate s*x urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn’t like to be associated with, be careful.Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul matesingle lady.
9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and Good Home Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men; both the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your character and manner are the things that will determine whether any of those men would stay or run after accomplishing their evil missions. Scholar's Pen.

Submitted: July 23, 2013

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