Good Slut/Bad Slut

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Status: Finished  |  Genre: Non-Fiction  |  House: Booksie Classic
just a little game to determine sluttiness

Submitted: January 13, 2011

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I just got back from a long weekend away with a bunch of like-minded girlfriends. It was a four hour drive each way and we were talking every single minute of it. A good portion of the time we amused ourselves by good-naturedly calling each other \"slut\". And before I continue, you must know I always use the term fondly. But anyway, this line of teasing got us to wondering, what really is a slut? How do you know if you are a slut? What defines the term? Well, Webster's dictionary gives the following definition: 1. a slovenly woman 2. a promiscuous woman, especially a prostitute. a saucy girl, a minx. Wow. I'd love to be a saucy girl. Or even a minx. But we came up with our own random definitions based on our wide and varied experiences (and there was a whole lotta experience contained in that car let me tell you!) First of all, we determined that there were basically two types of slut; the good slut and the bad slut. The good slut is actually just a sexually empowered woman who feels rather free - this is someone you actually might want to be. The bad slut is a woman who gives away all her power in a sexual situation and ends up feeling remorse or other negative emotions. Obviously this is something to avoid but in the end you might try to forgive yourself if you do slip up and engage in such self-defeating behavior. I have no moral judgment about \"bad\" slut -it's just something that, for my own sanity, I try not to do. So here are some ways to tell if you are a good slut or bad slut or any slut at all.... NON SLUT has only one monogamous partner at a time, even if it's just a casual dating situation. GOOD SLUT has more than one (condom-wearing!) partner at a time. She \"dates\" casually and freely. However there is an out. If the men she is seeing know she is dating other guys then she is not a slut. To clarify, if the guy knows you are a slut then you are actually not a slut. Make sense? BAD SLUT has many drunken random encounters with non-condom-wearing partners. **********

NON SLUT waits until she really gets to know and like a guy before sleeping with him (probably about a month's worth of dating) GOOD SLUT is checking out all her options, sexually speaking, but she truly likes and enjoys each of her partners. BAD SLUT has sex with guys she isn't attracted to and doesn't even like. ***********

NON SLUT feels content with herself and her partner and is in no rush to get naked. GOOD SLUT mostly feels fairly comfortable with what she is doing and considers the occasional bad encounter a learning experience. BAD SLUT is either numbed out or filled with shame, and may want to stop but is not sure how. ************ NON SLUT hopes to fall in love. GOOD SLUT hopes to fall in love. BAD SLUT hopes to fall in love. So you see, at the heart of the matter we are all just the same


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