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Location: Virginia Beach, United States

Member Since: November 2010

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    Heyyy, yall. I am just the average American Girl looking for love, answers, happiness, to make a difference, and to make sense of this crazy ol' world. I love to read and write, and other parts of the arts.I enjoy many sports. I love the outsdoors in general. I love newer(last like ten years or so as of 2011) country music and some pop or whatever you call it.

    Family: I have a brother who is eleven years older than I am and a sister who is two and a half years younger than me. My parents difforced a little bit before my sixth christmas, but not OFFICIALLY till I was in first or second grade. I am very close to my mom and her parents. Family time is always in my number one or two spot of fave stuff...


Fav Quote (top 2):

Meeting You was Fate

Becoming Your Friend was a chioce.....

But fallig in love with you i had no control over

(read this -above- on myheart's profile page...so check out her writing!)

"For everthing you have missed, you have gained something else; and for everything you gain, you lose something else. It is about your outlook towards life. You can either regret or rejoice." IDK

"The greatest barriers to success is the fear of failure." IDK

"The most difficult phase of life is not when no one understands you; it is when you don't understand yourself." IDK

"We can only appreciate the miracle of the sunrise if we have waited in the darkness." IDK

"It is never too late to be what you might have been: George Elliot

"yesterday's the past, tomorrow's the future, but today is a gift. That's why it's called the present." IDK

"Life consists not in holding good cards but in playing those you hold well." Josh Billings

"The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it but that it is too low and we reach it." Michelangelo

"You know you're in love when you can't sleep because you know your reality is better than your dreams"

Other Awesome Quotes:

"When I was five years old, my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life. When i went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I wrote down "Happy". They told me I didn't understand the assignment. I told them they didn't understand life." John Lennon

The "brightest sky can yield the darkest tornado" Raul Duke II in Looking for a way home 

In All my problems "the common factor is me; I am the problem" Ruth Klewans McLenaghan

"You gotta lose to win" Daniel Powter

"The whole concept of celebrity pisses me off. While I'm not a celebrity, it's nsuch a weird concept that society has cooked up for us. Astronaut and teachers are much more amazing than actors." Unkown

"What doesn't kill us, only makes us want to die."

"I can't rely on men. Doesn't mean I don't love them. Doesn't mean I walk out. Just means I adjust my expectations. Men are weak." (reference to mankin not the male gender) Unknown

"It's better to burn out then fade away." Unknown

"For a long time it seemed to me that life was about to begin - real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life. This perspective has helped me to see there is no way to happiness. Happiness the way. So treasure every moment you have and remember that time waits for no one. Happiness is a journey, not a destination..." Souza

"Without suffering, there is no compassion." Nicholas Sparks

"I am the author of my life, but unfortunately I am writing in pen so I can't erase my mistakes." Unknown

"THe beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them." Thomas Merton

"Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own." Robert Heinlein

"You know it's love when all you want is that person happy, even if you're not part of that happiness." Julia Roberts

"Love is when the other person's happiness is more important than your own." H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

"Your task is not to seek for love, but meerly to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it." Jalal ad-Din Rumi

"Pure love is a willingness to give without receiving anything in return." Peace Pilgrim

"Leave no stone unturned." Unknown

"Men do less than ought, unless they do all they can." Thomas Caryle

"Happy are those who dream dreams and are ready to pay the price to make them come true." Leon J. Suenes

"Life is Either a daring adventure or nothing." Hellen Keller

"After the game, the king and the pawn go into the same box." Italian Proverb

"Our truest life is when we are in dreams awake." Henry David Thoreau

"So often times it happens that we live our lives in chains and we never even know we have the key." Lyrics from the song Already Gone, performed by the Eagles for their 1974 One the Border album

"The future belongs to those whbo believe in the beauty of their dreams." Eleanor Roosevelt


 as though no one is watching you,


 as though you have never been hurt before,


 as though no one can hear you,

 Live as though heaven is on earth" Souza

"Love is passion, obsession, someone you can't live without. If you don't start with that, what are you going to end up with? Fall head over heels. I say find someone you can love like crazy and who'll love you the same way back. And how do you find him? Forget your head and listen to your heart. I'm not hearing any heart. Run the risk, if you get hurt, you'll come back. Because, the truth is there is no sense in living your life without this. To make the journey and not fall deeply in love - well, you haven't lived a life at all. You have to try. Because if you haven't tried, you haven't lived." William Parrish from the movie Meet Joe Black (1998)

"Love from one side hurts, but love from two sides heals." William Shakspeare

"Love and reason keep little company nowadays." William Shakespeare

"Love is like war, Easy to begin but hard to end." Anonymous

"Without suffering, there is no compassion." Nocholas Sparks

"I am the author of my life, but unfortunately I am writing in pen so I can't erase my mistakes." Unknown

"If you always do what you've always done, then you'll always get what you always got. While what I got had its perks, I'm looking for something different not." Tony DiNozzo, NCIS

"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched; they must be felt with the heart." Hellen Keller

"Beauty is not caused. It is. Emily Dickinson

"If there ever comes a time when we can't be together, keep me in your heart. I'll stay there forever." Winne The Pooh

"People say they're going to change. They swear to God they're going to change. But at the end of my day you are who you are." Monk -me: people can "change" but really it is just them finding who they are, embracing who they are, are finally acting like them

"Everyone says 'I love you'. I wonder how many of them actually mean it." onlyme (booksie name) (Check out their work)

"Friends are God's way of apologizing to us for our families." Dr. Wayner W. Dyer -me: not neccessarily...some families are good...haha some

"No reason to leave is never a good reason to stay"

"Always be a first-rate version of yourself instead of a second-rate version of somebody else." Judy Garland

"You only get out of life what you put in" Brandy

"The tunnel has had an end the whole time, you just have to walk through the tunnel first to reach that end." CJam

"The roughest road is often the one that leads to the top." Christinia Aquiler

"Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometime it is letting go" Herman Hesse

"Don't cry becuase it's over. Smile because it happened." Dr.Seuss

"Love is like heaven but can hurt like hell" Unknown

"The greastest possesion we have costs nothing; it is know as love" Anonymous

"Be who you afre because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." Dr.Seuss

"When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace." Jimi Hendrix

"I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems don't rhyme, and some stories don't have  a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next. Delicious ambiguity". Gilda Radner

"We must overcome the notion that we must be regular. . .it robs you of the chance to be extrordinary." Uta Hagen (German Actor)

"If your not living on the edge, you're taking up too much room." Lorraine Teel (American Activist)

"It is good to have an end to journey towards, but it is the journey that matters in the end." Ursula Leguin (American Writer)

"Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage." Anais Nin (French-American Writer)

"There's only one proof of ability: action." MArie Von Ebner - Eschenbach (Austrian Writer)

"Progress always involves risk. You can't steal second with your foot on first." Mary R.

"No reason to leave is never a good reason to stay" Unknown

"Words have the power to change us" Unknown

"If God wanted me otherwise, he would have made me otherwise." Euripides

"Curly hair or straight; blue eyes or brown eyes; tall or short; skinny or obese; prep or geek. The list can go on and on, but I didn't get a chance to pick who I wanted to be and what could look like, an dneither will you. I am simply myself, and no one will ever change that, despite what they say or do. So. . .love me or hate me; either way, I'll still be me." YOUnique2

"If you open your heart, love opens your mind." Charles John Quarto, Ericlowen Dam

"Love doesn't make the world go round. Love is what make the ride worthwhile." Franklin Jones

"Love knows no reasons, love knows no lies. Love defies all reasons, love has no eyes. But love is not blind, love sees but doesn't mind." unknown

"Love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. I lvoe you not only for what you have made yourself, but for what you are making of me. I love you for the part of me that you bring out" Roy Croft

"We come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an impaerfect person perfectly." Sam Keen

"In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing." Mignon McLaughlin

"Love is like pi-natural, irrational, and very important." Lissa Hoffman

"Love is like a Rubix Cube, there are countless numbers of wrong twists and turns, but when you get it right, it looks perfect no matter what way you look at it." Brian Cramer

"Since love grows within, so beauty grows. For love is the beauty of the soul." Saint Augustine

"Love is missing someone whenever your apart, but somehow feeling warm inside because your close in heart." Kay Knudsen

"Love is like an hour glass, with the heart filling up as the brain empties." Jules Renard

"Love wasn't put in your heart to stay. Love isn't love until you give you it away." Micheal W. Smith

Real Love is more than a physical feeling. If there's even the slightest doubt in your head about a guy, then forget about it. It's not real." Ethan Embry

"You know that when I hate you, it is because I love you to a point of passion that unhinges my soul." Julie de Lespinasse

"Hatred paralyzes life; love releases it. Hatred confuses life; love harmonizes it. Hatred darkens life; love illuminates it." Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

"I love you. It's not a weight you must carry around. I love you. It's not a box that holds you in. i love you. it's not a standard you have to bear. I love you. It's not a sacrifice I make. I love you. It's not a pedestal you are frozen upon. I love you. It's not an expectation of perfection. I love you. It's not my life's whole purpose (or your's). I love you. It's now to make you change. I love you. It's not even to make you love me. I love you. It's as pure and simple as that." Anonymous

"A man over time falls in love with the woman he is attracted to, and a woman over time becomes more attracted to the man she loves." Jennifer Wilkinson

"Love is the only thing you get more of by giving it away." Tom Wilson

"Love is a moment that lasts forever..." Julie Wittey

"We are told that poeple stay in love because of chemistry, or because they remain intrigued with eachother, because of many kindnesses, because of luck, but part of it has got to be forgiveness and gratefulness." Ellen Goodman

"Love is a promise, love is a souvenir, once given, never forgotten, never let it disapppear." John Lennon

"Absence is to love What wind is to fire; it extinguishes the smal, It enkindles the great.: Anonymous

"Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why poeple are so cynical about it... It really is worth fighting for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk everything, you risk even more." Erica Jong

"I finally understood what true love meant. Love meant you care for another person's happiness, more than your own, no matter how painful the choises you face might be." Dear John (the book)

"The best relationships are those you enter so you can give

not so you can get

choose someone who has that same intention

someone who's ready to bring down their pride

just to maek you happy" Joseph Dazo's booksie.com page

"Always love your enimies - nothing annoys them so much." Oscar Wilde

"True love is when you have to watch a friend leave, with the knowledge that you might never see him again. But you know he'll be in your mind and heart forever..." unknown

"The risk it takes to remain tight inside the bud is more painful than the risk it takes to blossom." Anais Nin

"Love is passion, obsession, someone you can't live without. If you don't start out with that what will you end up with." unknown

"Today I begin to understand what love must be, if it exists. . . . When we are parted, we feel the lack of the other half of ourselves. We are incomplete like a book in two volumes of which the first has been lost. That is what I imagine love to be: incompleteness in absence". Edmond de Goncourt and Jules de Goncourt.







Fav Letter:

"z" and sometimez "Z"...it depend, but mostly "z"

I am not reallysure why, I jst like it and think it's the coolest letter ever...

Sometimez in txing and infrmal writing (not an assignment but sometimes I still do in poetry writing) I replace "s" and "S" with a "z" or "Z"


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