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Location: Norwich, United Kingdom

Member Since: September 2009

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Hi! I'm Jess, and I think the first thing to say is the list of my medical and mental conditions (don't worry I'm not bonkers!). OK, so here goes. I have: Asperger Syndrome, depression, a sway back, a dicky hip, migraines, short-sightedness, an astigmatism in my right eye ... and a slight tendency to be weird! I'm also not monogamous, even though I'm engaged! Don't ask me how it works, but basically I'm engaged to a great guy, but sexually I find it hard to be monogamous. Judge me if you will, just don't tell me about it.

At the moment I'm studying for a BA in Music at UEA, and I'm hoping to follow that with a PGCE, Masters and PhD. Other than that, I work as a part-time waitress at Pizza Hut, which is tremendous fun! Tiring, but well worth it for the money, especially cos I'm saving up to have laser eye surgery done, as well as buying a home with my partner Jonathan. Hopefully it'll be a nice house, not a dive, but it'll be whatever we can afford at the moment!

I'm also a pagan, specifically Wiccan, but also believe some Buddhist and Christian doctrine. This has caused me to take some flak, but hey, whatever floats your boat. You wanna have a go at me for believing what I believe, that suits me. I'll just ignore you and continue doing what I'm doing, it doesn't really matter to me if you hate me or love me.

Best quote ever: "It takes 40 muscles in your face to frown at someone, but only 8 to extend your arm and slap them." - Anon. So true ...

Another great quote: "A friend asks you what's wrong. A best friend already has the shovel ready to bury the person that hurt you." - Anon. Again, so true ...

Don't believe everything you read about me! People seem to love spreading stuff about me, and it really annoys me when it happens - it's a bit like being a celebrity except I'm not famous! So far I've apparently cheated three times, had four different engagement rings and changed my wedding venue five times! Honestly, it boggles the mind sometimes, doesn't it?

Anyway, enjoy the stuff I put on here, feel free to comment and give constructive criticism or whatever, and let me know if you want me to read anything of yours!

Peace and blessings,

Jess x



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